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  1. I have it, and my parents said I always did as a child too. As an adult I'm much more in tune, and I try to eat as soon as the "hangry" starts and before the shakes set in. My DD (5) also has it. The first symptom is irrational crying, which can be hard to determine except in retrospect. Then her lips turn white and she gets blue circles under eyes. We lay her out flat on the floor and have her sip juice until she has color again. Her pedi said it's much more common in girls in his experience (DH and DS have never experienced it). *Note - oatmeal is also a terrible trigger for me, which is too bad because I like it. Our whole family eats mainly paleo now (kids are more relaxed about it) mostly because it keep me and DD more stable.
  2. Mine also learned to read whole-word and never really learned phonics UNTIL he started spelling in first grade. As soon as he figured out the phonics rules (which was really fast compared to how long it takes an emerging reader), then his teacher switched out his spelling for more difficulty. I don't have a curriculum to suggest, but I just wanted to add in that phonics CAN be taught after reading is already established.
  3. We've read almost everything suggested above, but I've got another option for you. I still read to him! Yes, my 9-year-old can easily read almost anything, but I still read to him before bed every night, and I plan to for a long time. We started Harry Potter (out loud) at about 6. I had already read the whole series myself multiple times, but he had no issues with the first 2 books. Then we took a pause before book 3 and another pause before book 4 (read at 8.5-years-old). I honestly don't think he will ever be emotionally ready for book 5, but at some point we will plow through it. Right now I am reading the Little House on the Prairie series aloud to him. There are a few sentences that I skip (dealing with the Indians), and there are lots of things that I help interpret and discuss. I am really enjoying reading this series with my new adult perspective - Ma is so passive, and Pa doesn't really take her opinions into account. I didn't even see that as a kid. And I bought the Little House cookbook for us to play around with (I'm sure Ma would be appalled that I substituted coconut oil for her lard).
  4. I didn't. He was my first, and both DH and I are smart, so it all seemed normal to me. It was other people pointing things out. Learned the alphabet before be could walk? Taught himself to read before was 3? Chapter books before he started Pre-K? All seemed regular to me. It was other people who were shocked and either wanted us to go on Ellen or told us that they "allowed their kids to play and be kids." I did notice some things with language. He eventually needed speech therapy to deal with some oral coordination problems, so he would completely avoid attempting words with certain sounds. Instead he'd use more complex synonyms that he could pronounce; e.g. "cat" would come out sounding like "tat" so he used the word "feline" instead. And now it's so normal to me for him to use words and phrasing more in tune with a law professor, that I don't even notice most of the time unless somebody else mentions it. After reading from what other people said above, the nurse at the hospital noticed it with him too. He was in the basinet in my room getting ready for a test, and he was practically rolling over to look at me and hear my voice. She said she'd never seen a baby want his mama so much. But, again, I thought all babies did that. And since we already had one gifted, nothing little sister does surprises us much either. I think we are more likely to see her strengths that occur in areas that are different from him, but we don't really have any idea what a baseline is.
  5. I also have a voracious 9 year-old, but he is also very sensitive. Therefore, we are making sure that he has a chance to read EVERYTHING that is age appropriate, and it doesn't matter if he gets through a book in less than an hour. He advanced so quickly that I know there are books that I don't want him to skip just because they are "below" his reading level. For example, this week he's reading lots of Beverly Cleary books, and we're doing the Little House on the Prairie series together because I enjoy it. None of these are challenging literature for him, but they are books that I still remember in detail from when I was a kid, and I don't want him to miss out. So what I'm saying is, if you were a reader, what were YOUR favorites? And the way that we are accomplishing this is for him to read on a Kindle Paperwhite. I like it because it has less eye strain than an LCD screen. I can load on 10 library books at a time for free (depends on your local library), and I can reload as often as I need. Other stuff that he has loved: Mrs. Piggle Wiggle (and series), Pippi Longstocking (and series), Harry Potter (up through book 4, and now we stop until he's ready for the mature content), some of the Judy Blume books (Tales of a 4th Grade Nothing, for example), Bunnicula series, Phantom Tollbooth, A Wrinkle in Time series, Black Stallion series, Roald Dahl books. ETA: I just reread that you are already using a Kindle, so I'm sure you doing the refill every few days like I am! ETA2: To actually challenge his reading skills, we generally go to non-fiction. He likes science and technical reading, so we let him loose there.
  6. Geronimo Stilton has several great series. Some are chapter books and some are comic-book style novels which my DS started getting into at about 5 years old. At that age he also devoured The Littles series. But I'm also going to say picture books are where it is at! We love the Elephant and Piggie books my Mo Williems (sophisticated humor). Bernenstain Bears, Little Golden Books (especially the older ones from used book stores), The Day the Crayons Quit, Dragons Love Tacos, Robot Sauce are a few that come to mind and books that the whole family enjoys. And, of course, any classics that you loved as a kid are still around. Don't skip them!
  7. My first early reader (now 8) didn't pick up on phonics until he started doing spelling at 6, and he had absolutely no issue with learning it then. My second early reader (now 4) has learned phonics and is a master at sounding out words, though her reading level is not nearly as advanced as her whole-word brother was at this age. Neither approach is right or wrong, and actually we couldn't change how they chose to approach reading in any case. I am strongly in favor of picture books because there are plenty of ones with sophisticated reading and age-appropriate stories. However, I'm also not against chapter books and some longer books too. The Littles series is great, and he really enjoyed the Geronimo Stilton series (both the chapter books and the graphic novels). We don't homeschool, so feel free to take this with a grain of salt, but I'd stop worrying about TEACHING reading as a curriculum and just let her continue to read as much as she wants for now. Also, keep reading TO her. There is benefit to that as well, and you can explore some books that you enjoy. I hope that it's a family tradition that we will keep up for a long time still.
  8. I'd want it at least introduced before he gets put in a situation where he gets in an argument with a teacher or another student about what "A" is. I'm sure that he will learn them quickly, and since he's already reading I wouldn't think there would be a problem with telling him each letter has both a sound and a name.
  9. My 8-year-old is using Wordly Wise for spelling/vocabulary. Most of the words are not new to him, but there is more analysis of the word structure done. However, we try to keep writing as a very separate thing. He tend to be a perfectionist, and sometimes you just need to get the ideas down on paper even if you can't spell all the words.
  10. Scratch is great fun. My DS loves to read the Wiki, modify other people's projects, and design his own stuff. Look into the book "Hello, World!" for a good kid-friendly intro to Python too. It's long, but straightforward.
  11. As a biologist, I love this. She has great tongue-in-cheek humor!
  12. Thanks for the Murderous Maths suggestion. I got him a 10-book box set this weekend, and he has already plowed through 4 of them. I asked if he understood everything or if he would have to read them again later after more school, and he said that he understands pretty much everything but not always. Regardless, he is a re-reader, so this has been a good investment.
  13. I can hear the muted tv from anywhere in the house. I also can hear fluorescent lights. The ones in my office are ringing away overhead right now, and I'm about to go talk a walk outside for a break from them. I also can hear the ultrasonic cat repeller we put in the garden to keep feral cats away. Yet my hearing in conversation range is not great. I've been tested and I'm low normal there. Weird.
  14. Airhogs makes some great and inexpensive stomp rockets. My kids have played stomp rocket all the time for years.
  15. You can start by asked her to write down what facts she knows from the problem. Sometimes I also have him restate what the final goal question is. After that is usually comes together for him and sometimes I will ask similar leading questions to when we are doing mental math.
  16. I agree. But I think in these little ones, one way to address it is to re-direct their focus to the process instead of letting them cross over into the emotions of frustration. That's what I was trying to get across, that I want to keep an open dialogue about how to work through "hard" instead. An older kid might gain a lot more from being left to struggle for a long time on issues, but at this age building the confidence to solve difficult things is more important, and helping with the tools of problem solving can help. After that I might ask him to go off alone and solve the same problem again, but come up with a different way to do it. Creativity is also important!
  17. My nearly 8-year-old does not do that exact same thing, but he also does expect to always get everything correct easily. He knows that we absolutely won't give him the answers even when he asks the questions, but we will ask some leading questions to help break down the process. For example, he asked how mush gas it would take to get to another city 2 hours away. So we worked through with him how to estimate that. We said that we drive about 60 MPH to get there, so he figured out that it was abut 120 miles. He could see that the car was getting 49.8 MPG, so we told him to round that up to 50 for the mental math since we were estimating. Then he was able to divide and came up with the answer that it was 2 groups of 50 for the 100. Then we asked him what to do with the other 20 miles. He said that 25 is half of 50, so it would be a little less than half, which meant it would take a little less than 2.5 gallons of gas to make the trip.
  18. DS rocked first grade in his private school. Academically most of his achievements were the supplemental fun stuff he did at home, but we are SO proud of him socially. He is liked by everyone. He plays with boys and girls equally well with kids from K-4 with no issues. Everybody is his friend (though this has led to a little extraneous talking in class). He is celebrated for his sweetness (and hugs for teachers) and they even understand and cherish his deep emotional sensitivity. We could not be happier that his geekiness is celebrated there. Anybody with an EG kid (or perhaps PG - we haven't tested yet) knows how huge this is.
  19. He has just started on Prodigy too - I should have listed that. I'm not sure yet what he thinks of it, but it looks like fun.
  20. Thank you all! Placing some orders today. Keeping him stocked is a big job. As I look through the lists of Ian Stewart books, I realize that I think we have some of these in our bookshelves. It reminded me that we have lots of interesting things at home that I haven't opened up to him yet.
  21. DS is finishing up first grade at a private school, and I'm putting together his box of summer learning. I'm set with reading, computers, and science, but I need some more ideas for math. He has great number intuition and enjoys working through word problems and logic puzzles, so I'm looking for some "fun" stuff for him. I'm not looking for a curriculum, but more fun math support things that he will choose to do on his own. He is math gifted (and reading on the high school level), but we haven't accelerated him other than lots of mental math. Right now he has been playing Dragonbox, and he whipped through the entire 5+ algebra app last weekend and has moved on to the 12+. We have the first 4 LOF books, which he likes. We have Sir Cumferance and Penrose. We also have a book of Mind Benders. We do Bedtime math at the dinner table. More ideas? He is a voracious learner, so having lots of resources around is a given.
  22. I just recently subscribed to Scientific American so that if he's going to read every random thing in the house at least it's a bit more accessible to a non-expert.
  23. I caught my 7-year-old reading C&EN, Chemical and Engineering News last weekend. I think we need to do some more library trips too.
  24. Pretty much everyone requires a TI at the higher levels, but any cheap scientific calculator might be sufficient at the beginning. Most professors put their calculator requirements on the syllabus, so you should be able to look at what they use this year if the syllabi are available on online. And if you want to purchase, this chart is good to keep in mind https://education.ti.com/en/us/products#!lightbox=calculator-comparison-chart&product=graphing-calculators
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