I am curious if others have experience with a reluctant student and anything you have done that has helped him/her turn the corner.
I'm homeschooling our 6-year old son as a Kindergartener, he has a summer birthday...we started him as k in '12/'13, but then ended up listing our house, selling our house, living with grandparents, and moving to a new place all fall/winter of 2012. So we just played a lot and read a lot, but didn't officially start up again until fall 2013.
We are doing OPGTTR and Saxon Math 1 consistently and fitting in when I have bandwidth, FLL 1, SOTW 1, and AAS level 1. We are just reading library books and pursuing interest led science and reading aloud literature books to round everything out. We are also in a co-op that does science, art, and gym every other week, but without homework.
All sounds rosy, yes? NO!!
I say, let's do math. TEARS!! Emotion!!! Staring into space...dropping pencil...not paying attention to details...losing place on the page...etc.
If however, I ask the questions and write the answers myself, without him realizing he's doing the lesson, he's fine. "oh that's easy...(answer)." (I've done this occasionally just so we can get it done with, but I feel like it is good for him to just do his work.)
And it is not a handwriting/hand-development issue...for when he gets an idea to write a mystery series, he goes for it...illustrations and all and it is wonderful...aside from spelling errors, which I just leave when it's his fun project...
What should I do differently? What's with all the emotion? Why does he spend 2 hours not doing his math when he literally could finish in 20min. or less? I'm not have success in helping him understand that. I feel so bad for him sitting and wasting his time. I'm also not into complete interest-led/unschooling though I do see a place to the interest led elements to learning. What tips do ya'll have to motivate him to just do it? Do you see flaws in my thinking? I'm super tired of fighting him, but I really want to homeschool and enjoy when he's enjoying it.