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Title pretty much says it all. Seems to be this would be relevant for classes and testing outside the home, but I know that testing accommodations are usually based on accommodations you already have in place. But it’s hard for me to even know what kind of accommodations we have in place because, well, this is just our normal. So kids get breaks when the need breaks. They get extra time if they need it. I help them write when there’s much writing. I probably do a lot more that I don’t even realize is accommodating.
Ds9 will do his first standardized test next Spring and I want to make sure I’m doing things “right!”
FWIW, only diagnosis are ASD and ADHD, but EF struggles are real! Lol. I’m sincerely worried about distractions during the test.
ETA I confess that I don’t understand the differences between all the different plans you can have (504, IEP, etc).
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Attentiveness and EF struggles run rampant here (writing difficulties, adhd, etc). Is it weird to consider requesting accommodations on something like the talent search tests at numats? Is it just like requestiong accommodations for any other standardized test?
I guess part of me feels like it’s silly to have extra time for an out of level test. Feels almost like cheating to get ahead. Thoughts?
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On 9/18/2018 at 2:51 PM, Crimson Wife said:
Our integrative neurodevelopmental pediatrician has an excellent talk on diet and natural things to try before resorting to a pharmaceutical. It's long but worth watching.
He is not 100% anti-medication and in fact recommended it after my DD exhausted his list of suggestions but was still having symptoms severe enough to interfere with being able to function in a mainstream setting. He just thinks pharmaceuticals should be a "last resort" rather than the first thing tried.
For anyone else interested, here’s the full length video. I already watched it twice...
ETA just found this updated one from 2014 so I linked it instead. It is good stuff!!
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Well, I just met with the psych, and she says that there’s not a doubt in her mind that’s he has ADHD and it is affecting every single area of his life. She feels that the ASD-2 dx is off, even, inflated by ADHD tendencies, and he’s probably only ASD-1.
So I suppose I’m off to read about dietary interventions and meds now.
Ds summed it up really well for us this weekend when he said, “I’m just bored all the time. Even when I’m doing something, I’m bored. No matter what I’m doing, my brain is bored.” ?
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On 9/10/2018 at 12:07 PM, Guest said:
4KookieKids, you'll find the diets mentioned in Dr. Bock's book. However, if you can find Dr. Kenneth Aitken's book, Dietary Interventions in Autism Spectrum Disorders at your library, it devotes a chapter to each diet. It's a book I bought (my library system does not carry it, although I seem to remember they may have had one copy at some point) after I saw Crimson Wife mention it (if I remember correctly). We have not tried all the diets found in the book, at this point in time.
I just wanted to update that it seems that Google books has Aitken's entire book available online, in case anyone else is interested in reading it:
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I’m following this. I have a 7yo who is... intense. Definitely gifted, dx’d only with anxiety and dyslexia and SPD so far. Very observant of others but seems indifferent to the way her words hurt them. Lots of weird interactions with others. It’s hard to distinguish social observations from social awareness from social skills at this point. Folks usually assume that she’s just deliberately being mean or that it’s the usual tactlessness of children. She’s very quiet in groups though and that’s when her anxiety usually peaks. It’s hard to tell what’s going on in her head. I’ve wondered more than once if she might also be on the spectrum (runs in our family and ds is already dx’d). But the one time I brought t up to a professional, kind of laughing, “I’ve even wondered if she might be on the spectrum too!! Ha ha” sort of thing, they quickly laughed at what a silly idea that was and moved on. I knew enough about it presenting differently with gifted kids and also with girls, and that maybe not being widely understood yet, that I just decided to wait and watch how things continue to develop.
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1 hour ago, Ktgrok said:
MRSA is just staph that is resistant to certain drugs. You said that the impetigo responds well to the drug you are using so that isn’t an issue.
im wondering if your DD has eczema or sebborhea in the crease by her nose, leading to broken skin which allows the bacteria to take hold?
Or if she picks up the cat too often and gets scratched a lot while trying to bury her face in his fur... lol.
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6 minutes ago, Jackie said:
Thames and Kosmos has a line of them. They’re numbered, and just like Snap Circuits, the higher the kit number the bigger and more thorough the kit is. We’ve only done the C500, because I’m waiting until I feel I can afford the C3000 before I buy another one of them so we can just get the giant one and be done with it. In the middle are C1000 and C2000. Equipment was decent, explanations were good for someone who already has a hit of background, nothing in the one we got was any more dangerous than being a possible skin irritant. The tubes of chemicals were a little difficult to open, but otherwise DD was able to be independent with the small kit we got even at 6 years old.
Love this! It sounds like exactly what I’m looking for!!
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Oi. I'd never even thought of this. So if we're on another round of bactroban, can they still swab it to see if it's MRSA, or would I need to wait until/if it comes back again after this round. My hubby is lysoling everything in sight right now.... lol.
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Ds9 really wants a real chemistry set. I’m not think subscription, I’m more thinking something similar to snap circuits- where we bought one big set and it and with instructions and explanations for 750 experiments that all build on each other. He doesn’t mind reading the stuff himself, and already reads lots of chemistry based library books.
I would like it to be mostly independent (so no dangerous chemicals and only occasional fires...) Does anything like this exist?
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12 minutes ago, Ausmumof3 said:
My ds has had it three or four times over his lifespan though not in such a short time. The dr though he was most likely a carrier (about 30pc of people are) where the germ is living in the nose and so if you get a bug bite or cut it breaks out again.
The doctor didn’t say this but I’ve noticed that it always occurs when his seasonal allergies flare up so I tend to suspect it’s a sign of an immune system that’s already malfunctioning that lets it start running wild.
you might want to get a swab done to make sure it’s not the methicillin resistant type though if it’s clearing up with Bactoban I’m guessing it’s not?
Yes, it clears up within 3-4 days of starting the bactroban every single time (though we still finish the full 7 day regimen). I didn't know you could be a carrier... That's interesting information. DH is about to lysol everything in her room tomorrow and just keep her out for the day and air it out later, hoping that if it's living on any surfaces, that will kill it! I'm not a fan of lysol, but we're just not sure what else to do! We have three other kids, and it's so contagious! She wasn't my first kid to get it - but she's my first to get it more than once ever, let alone in the course of just a few months each time.
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30 minutes ago, Seasider too said:
Sure it’s impetigo and not molluscum contagioso?
No... I guess I’ll have to go look that up now. Pediatrician said impetigo and we just went with it, since it certainly felt t the description of impetigo!
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Dd5 has had impetigo on her face about four times in the last ten months. We treat it with bactroban and some essential oils (just to speed up the process), she's clear for a few months, and then it comes back again. We don't do daycare, we homeschool, and we don't know anyone who has had it recently. I just have no idea where it's coming from!! Any ideas?? It's always in the same spot right around her nose and then spreads to her cheeks and chin and upper lip area. We've taken bedding and stuffed loveys and washed/dried on hot and then lysoled them, even.
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On 8/12/2018 at 5:08 PM, Runningmom80 said:
Updates!
I'm attempting to follow TWTM and CM a little more closely, taking what works and leaving what doesn't, it only took me 7 years to figure it out.
DS 11.5 (7th grade)
- History - Industrial Revolution study
- Science - Chemistry using MEL chemistry kits and You Be the Chemist challenge
- Math - Second half of Jacobs Algebra and Waldorfish Geometry through Art for fun
- Language Arts - Lord of the Rings class through Online G3; Grammar for High school and They Say, I Say study; NaNoWriMo; Judy Bloom Masterclass. Possibly a Bravewriter class or two, Literature from the Industrial Revolution time period, another G3 class in the Spring
- Spanish - Homeschool Spanish Academy (still his favorite!)
- Extras - Piano, swimming, more Masterclasses
Twins 8 (3rd Grade)
- Math - Singapore
- Science - Mystery Science with a focus on Chemistry
- History - We are going to attempt to cover Medieval in Fall Semester and Renaissance Spring semester using the Gombrach book and also Horrible Histories
- French - SYRWTLF along with the Know it All videos
- Language Arts - Literature pulled from TWTM and Ambleside lists; Bravewriter Partnership Writing; Grammar for Elementary School; cursive and typing
- Extras - Piano for DS, violin for DD, both will do soccer
Morning Basket
- Geography will be Asia this year
- Modern Artist Study with the Art History Kids modern art bundle
- Memory work
- Shakespeare
- CNN 10
- TedEd
Now I just have to purchase everything and organize the new school room
How are you liking the Mel science kits?
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Bumping... Is it really the case that nobody here has tried these and can offer feedback??
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Ours has been completely derailed be the 2E side of things. So some things came up that needed addressing, but addressing them is so exhausting to the kiddos that there is little energy left for other stuff. So we’re mostly chilling and continuing to practice instruments, and I’m having to remind myself daily that it’s just a season. We’re hoping the season is over by the holidays, but in the meantime, I just console myself that we’re listening to tons of great audiobooks... lol. In the last few months, we’ve heard Tales from Shakespeare, James and the giant peach, Narnia, and the entire chitty chitty bang bang series, not to mention tons of silly books like Ivy and Bean and Artemis Fowl and Harry Potter. Next up are more Dahl and the little house books.
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I am sorry. It was me that revived this thread. I just missed it when it was originally posted and thought the article was interesting, was all.
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5 minutes ago, Pen said:
I am wondering what the ongoing conversation in your house is like?
My view is that in time, your 9 year old if she keeps practicing may go far with music, even if she does not become a famous classical musician.
She may find her love of and playing of music is a continuing source of great happiness in her llife, especially, if she can continue to enjoy it without comparing herself to her little sister.
We talk about love of music first and foremost. My kids aren’t required to learn instruments. I specifically discuss with them that I have enough things I have to make them do- I will not put myself in the place of also having to enforce daily practice of an instrument. The rules are simple: if you don’t practice faithfully, I just won’t pay for lessons. Becaus of this, myfocus with my kids is always love of music first, and how sometimes that requires practicing through hard times. Ds9 is a real perfectionist, and I sometimes have to drag him away from the piano in tears because he just can’t get a piece right and he really just needs a break. At those times, we revisit the conversation: is this still fun? Do you still find this fulfilling? If so, we can work through this, with time and practice and help from your teacher. If it’s only causing frustration (like after an hour of making the same mistakes...), then it’s time to take a break and ty again later.
I try hard to suppress any comparisons, but it’s also hard when dd7, who still lacks most tact, just flat out asks why ds9’s playing doesn’t sound so good, and starts to give him pointers... lol.
So far, ds9 isn’t too bothered by the situation, but I am watching it carefully. It’s just been hard for me to watch as a parent because I find it so unfair that dd7 is so much better, despite all his efforts.
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3 hours ago, EKS said:
The problem with the whole growth mindset thing is that anyone who has lived in the world knows that there is a limit to how much "growth" is possible. It is disingenuous to claim that anyone can do anything if they put in the effort. Differences in ability are real, and they can be profound.
I like the growth mindset jargon. I do feel like it gave me words of encouragement that matched my heart in certain situations where I lacked the appropriate words.
But it certainly doesn’t translate into “you can be anything and do anything you see your heart to.” That’s just dishonest. It’s been an ongoing conversation at my house recently because ds9 loves the viola and the piano. Really loves them. Practices each faithfully around a half hour daily, and works *hard,* and has for the last several years. Now dd7 has started piano and violin, and she is already a better strings player than he is, even if her theory isn’t quite as advanced. It’s clear to anyone who hears them that she is a far superior player, despite having started less than six months ago and only practicing ten minutes a day. I feel like I want to shield ds from this somehow, because it’s a hard thing in life to give something your very best and then be shown up by a little twerp who isn’t even trying.
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Thanks! I wonder how you make time for everything!!
I feel like even our basic goals are just our max right now. With 2ish hours of outside therapies and/or appointments, VT exercises 3X a day (2 hrs total once dd is done pitching a fit and actually does it), an hour of instruments (they do love their music), a good chunk of time on daily things like eating and getting dressed and cleaning bedrooms and resolving fights, dance class and just an hour or two of free/down/play time, our entire day is gone. I’m lucky if oldest does math 2-3 times a week, and 5yo needs to learn to read at some point and DH is concerned that I’m failing them academically because we do it so rarely. I feel like what we’re doing isn’t too much. It feels ok and manageable but very full at the same time. It feels like too little, objectively, and like I should obviously be doing real academics, but I also think there’s no way I could add in more without going crazy. Lol.
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42 minutes ago, Ellie said:
::whispers:: Also, it's Spalding, not Spaulding. ? ::
Ha ha. I really do know! My phone auto corrected! ?
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I have two kids who can spell just fine when we do it together. We use Spalding and they really, really like it. Even my dyslexic kid who doesn’t read well yet loves to spell!
Recently they've been having fun writing stories, mostly fantasy, and I love the content, but boy is their writing atrocious!! Spelling is AWFUL, punctuation nom-existent, oddly placed or missing capitols, words split in two lines along a non syllable break... My dyslexic is the worst and “princess” came out something like “pnris.” (She reads it back to me as princess later, of course.) Ds is not dyslexic and reads widely, and he was majorly misspelling super common words!!
I had been letting it slide and just letting them enjoy their fun, but I’m starting to get stressed out about it! Are they not learning anything?? Why would they write SO badly when this is a project they WANT to do and are actually able to do well??
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23 minutes ago, Moved On said:
I keep my PM blocked to avoid backchannel talk. I avoid gossip so I isolate myself instead. Let me know if you want me to open it temporarily. I only came back to post because I saw your posts.
I don’t know what backchannel talk is - so I don’t know how to answer this. Don’t worry about it though. Go enjoy your time away! ?
How and why do you write an IEP while homeschooling?
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Oh that is all interesting. No, we are currently not doing outside classes through anyone, not even a co-op. So my main concern really is having things set up for the testing next year, as well as having any sort of trail that I will need for testing down the road or potential he having him in classes, even though that’s not currently on the table. I guess I just don’t want to find out in five years but I should have been doing something more all along and I never even thought of it! ?