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Annie Anne

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  1. Wow. Hope that means you are not responsible for the amounts.
  2. Tell them exactly that. Appeal now and get an lawyer now. Hope you find reasonable people.
  3. Your husband is an adult who is putting his comfort in front of his son's safety. Your son is a child who is about to learn that his father's comfort is more important than his safety. and, from the minimizing that is going to happen if you don't dealt with head on, he is going to learn that feeling bad about what happened to him makes him wrong. Can you ask your husband if he was a victim of this man? Can it be that he has something to hide?
  4. Does your husband have an opinion here? Are you fighting this battle on your own? You wrote that your husband is 'all for' what the man will do, because he doesn't have time. Does that go before protecting his son? I have some experience with this. If he is not standing completely with you, you must be prepared to stand completely alone when the chips start to fall. What side of the country are you on? A nice long educational trip to a historical place might save your son and your marriage. Can you move in with your mom for a few of weeks?
  5. I have to agree, Cancel Christmas. Pack up the Christmas ornaments. Pack up the dishes and silver so they can't continue to wreck the kitchen. Celebrate out with your sister and her kids. Have your husband adjust his expectations. Tell your daughters you have decided to no longer be uptight. Good luck
  6. I think I would, too. Just leave it alone. The further information puts her on the This is Someone I Do Not Need In My Life Right Now list. Unless you need her for the entertainment value.
  7. I think I would write back and ask her how long she has been a fan of abandonment. Then I would write her off. You have more than enough on your hands, worrying about her being offended. She did not worry about offending you. Praying for your daughter and for you.
  8. BTDT. For real. Stick to the facts. Never run him down. Never take the blame for him. Refuse to debate 'misunderstandings' with him or the kids--just the facts, never motivations. They will eventually see what is going on. It may take deacades. I am sorry.
  9. Do the rest of your family have smart phones? Cozi lets everyone access online. It gives each family member a different color and calendar. It displays them all or, If you want to see one kid's schedule, it will display that way, too. It is very versatile. I used it for years, but it is only online. It will not work as an offline calendar. I use i cal now, and outlook. They do not compare to Cozi, but I can access them off line. Watching for other suggestions.
  10. You were not over reacting. If you have not done some of the things listed here you are under-reacting. Those blowing it off could be afraid of conflict. Do they stand with you when some standing needs to be done? (I ask because people like that in my life will not stand with me. I spent a long time thinking I was overreacting, wrong, foolish to be concerned. I never was. That person/s had fear issues.)
  11. Is a lawsuit possible? Perhaps not all the way to collection, but to the point of scaring the individual party and the newspaper? Truly, this person has invited crime to the property. If nothing else, a counter article, showing the foolishness done by someone claiming to be a professional may scar that professional, and cause second thought next time. This is terrible. Installing a security system needs to be high on tomorrow's to do list.
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