Thank you so much for your responses, they are all very helpful.
I think I've gotten overwhelmed last night, but now I see that it's doable. I think the no-salt thing scared me a little.
Scootiepie, the doctors still don't know what's going on exactly, she is waiting for transfer to a bigger clinic. There is a big problem with her liver and I think rest of it they just base on her blood levels. Bread's just doesn't feel right to her, so she added that to the list.
Salads are a great idea, she loves that. And the rest of the family can have that as a side.