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  1. I'm trying to get into yoga. I recently got a subscription to Beachbody's VOD service so I'm trying out their 3 Week Yoga Retreat program: https://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/3-week-yoga-retreat-beginners.do

     

    So far it's been pretty enjoyable. I'm not a flexible person at all so it was tough going to start, but at the end of the first week I feel like I'm really starting to see some improvement in my form.

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  2. Anyone else trying to shed some extra weight before the Holiday? I started 2016 off really well, but after some personal issues I really let myself slip and have since packed on quite a few pounds. I've been telling myself to let it go until Christmas is over, but I'm dreading the idea of looking huge in all the family photos. I've got just about enough time to start a round of 21 Day Fix: https://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/21-day-fix-simple-fitness-eating.do, so I'm hoping I can at least shed a little of this extra weight before then.

     

    Anyone else trying to slim down? Maybe we can have get some kind of accountability thread going?

     

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  3. I shower every morning, but wash my hair every other day. I use a shower cap on the days I don’t wash my hair. If I feel like I need it, I work some dry shampoo into my crown and let it sit under the cap while I shower. Then I use a blow dryer and round brush to reshape my hair (and dry the parts of my hairline the shower cap doesn’t quite cover). My hair is straight, cut into an asymmetrical bob that is chin-length at the front.

    Another vote for dry shampoo! If you have a grease issue in the mornings putting some in before bed can often help alleviate some of those issues!

  4. My DH and I have a rule about balancing out practical gifts with thoughtful/romantic ones. I would talk to him about it. He should have already picked up on this by now, but I think communicating your feelings in important. He'll never learn or change if you don't try to make him see things your way.

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  5. I think you're being incredibly selfish. You want to limit your son's experience because you feel bad about it? This has nothing to do with kids being entitled. You're clearly just jealous that you aren't keeping up with the Jones' and you are willing to make your son miss out on a memorable experience because of it. He's lucky to have been invited on such a fun trip with his friend and I think it would be really unfair of you to take that away from him for literally no good reason other than your own hurt feelings.

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  6. Patricia McConnell

    Ian Dunbar

     

    Be careful as far as an intimidating dog. The guardian type dogs are by nature pretty strong willed and in general they do best with an experienced owner. I see a LOT of newbies getting themselves in trouble by getting "too much" dog for them. Most any dog who lives in the home and is raised with love will have some instinct to warn. And what most people want (and are capable of handling) is a watch dog. Not a guard dog. They're different.

     

    This is great advice. NOTHING against those breeds, they are amazing dogs who are great with kids that often get a bad rap, but they are intended for more experienced owners. I would strongly recommend another Lab or a Golden Retriever for your family. Both breed are notoriously mellow, great with kids and can be fierce protectors when they need to be (our Golden woke us up in the middle of the night to stop our NEIGHBOR from getting robbed and you should have heard the snarl that came out of him that night). 

     

    To answer your question about resources, I can't recommend the "Dog Whisperer" Cesar Millan enough. Some people have criticized his methods, but I think they're nuts to be honest. I had always been a dog person, but I learned SO much from him about dog psychology and how to better communicate my needs and wants to my dog. Ultimately your dog wants to please you and if you can effectively teach them what you want from them (and reward them of course) they are usually happy to comply. 

  7. Ooof that's a tough lesson to learn, but it's good to learn it now. I understand her frustration, but you're right to want to gently remind her this is her fault for being careless. Don't let her have to learn this lesson twice.

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  8. I definitely don't think $75 sounds like enough. $150 seems like a pretty reasonable number, but I might go as high as $200 TBH. Money doesn't go as far as it did when we were in school, and from it sounds like she isn't being exorbitant, just doing some normal college kid stuff.

  9. I think as some PPs have pointed the biggest thing is not making this a battle for territory. Crookshanks is likely feeling like this new kitten is here to take his space rather than share it. Make sure there are extra litter boxes, places to get water, and even adding new cat furniture or shelves for them to utilize will likely relieve a lot of tension. If you can, try to get them to eat together so they get used to being vulnerable around one another. This can often make a big difference. Make sure you're giving them both a lot of exercise so that they aren't on edge and ready to fight too! If all else fails, my vet recommend me a cat pheromone called Feliway when my new cat was having anxiety problems. I've never used it but they also have one specifically for tense multi-cat homes that might help: https://www.feliway.com/us/Feliway-MultiCat

     

    Good luck! I hope this works out for you all.

  10. I think that line of thinking is totally overstepping a very clear line of decency. In my mind, there is nothing wrong with a child (or anyone for that matter) dressing up as a fictional character that is of a different race or cultural background as long as there isn't attempt to alter one's skin color. That's 100000000% not that same thing as going as a "Native American Princess." One is intended to show your appreciation for a character, the other is trivializing someone else's race and culture.

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  11. How much weight are we talking? Would it absolutely shatter your partner to suggest going on a diet? Being overweight isn't good for your health, so losing the weight is probably a good thing for them to do long-term either way. If they're just a little pudgy and you're upset they don't have the same body they had in their 20s then I think you need to take the comments made here about deeper attraction seriously and ask if there isn't something more emotional at play here?

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  12. When is their anniversary? I would definitely talk to SIL and figure out what she is getting them before you decide on anything. Maybe you and your husband can go in on a gift together with SIL? Something to contribut to their leaf-viewing trip perhaps?

     

    I agree with jjhat7's idea on maybe paying for one night for them at a bed and breakfast or something along those lines, or even just a great card! You can always customize an anniversary card from Treat (http://www.treat.com/shop/anniversary_cards.htm). You can add photos and customize your own personal message inside the card! I would definitely go with a sentimental anniversary card, and then contribute whatever else you can to their leaf-viewing trip. I'm sure your MIL and FIL will love it!

     

    I need some help deciding on the appropriate gift amount for MIL-FIL 50th wedding anniversary.  I've asked repeatedly over the last few months for ideas of what they would like to receive and the only thing that MIL could think of was a leaf-viewing group tour this fall.  We would like to provide money that they could use towards this trip.  The tour would be around $3,000 for the two of them.

     

    We are co-hosting a party with their DD and inviting all the extended relatives. Our expenses will be around $500-600 for the party.

     

    I've asked DH about how much he wants to give but he says he is fine with whatever I decide. 

     

    Any ideas?  I do not know what SIL (their DD) is gifting.

     

    Thanks,

    Pegasus

     

  13. The fact that the lies are not centered around avoiding punishment for a wrongdoing, (real or perceived), makes me think this might be more about a creative mind than a character flaw.

     

    Have you tried giving this child an outlet for storytelling?

     

    See I was thinking something similar. Have tried asking why she is lying? What is her motivation for making up these stories? If she isn't trying to avoid punishment and she'll tell you truth with a little prossing it seems fairly innocent.

  14. My 12 year old piano playing lately is really enjoying sheet music from his favorite video games, movies, and shows. He also got legos and video games for his birthday. He like gift cards from game stop. Does he have an iPod? He likes Apple gift cards too - although we try not to get him gift cards, but that's always something good to tell relatives.

     

    These are all really good ideas. It sounds like he has a lot of big ticket items already and he's getting to that age where having a gift card or some money in your pocket to buy your own gifts is a big deal.

     

    If I were you I would print him a special birthday card from Treat.com and give him some gift cards to buy any of the things you said he's interested in, or maybe to the movies or something he can go do with his friends?

  15. I would work more on sound than color. If it plays nicely and sounds good more time will be spent with it. 

     

    I agree. Getting a "pretty" guitar will often result in one that sounds terrible or (without getting into detail) is basically unplayable. If she is serious about playing guitar you should explain to her that those kinds of guitars are basically just toys, and she wants a "real" guitar.

     

    At her age a 3/4 size is probably what you'll need.

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