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  1. 8 hours ago, MissLemon said:

    I can't speak to changes in curriculum, but it seems like the middle school years are where most people bounce back to school.  It's fun to teach littles, but sometimes it's painfully dull to teach middle schoolers.  I know I am feeling a bit bored with our lessons lately.  Sometimes there's no "homeschool magic" to be found.  It's just read the chapter, write the paragraph, wash, rinse, repeat.  🤷‍♀️ 

    Between dullness and puberty, I think a lot of moms say "Heck with this", and punt the kids back to school.  The social stuff gets weird in middle school, too. Some of the kids are really mature and others are late bloomers. The kids that used to happily dig holes together at the park now stare awkwardly at each other.  The kids don't really want the parents in the middle of their social stuff, but they are also still somewhat dependent on mom to facilitate the social stuff.  It's a weird time. 

    Huh, I haven't seen this in my homeschool group, and I kind of feel the opposite way. Maybe I'm not a fun mom with the littles. lol. It's been fascinating to see my young teen's academic interests develop and I find it much more interesting to talk with him about his paper about say, the Iranian Revolution, than to talk to my 8 y/o about her polar bear report. 

    Do you live in an area where there is peer pressure from churches or families to homeschool? I can see that being a factor. Mom isn't really into it, but feels pressured. Teaching little kids is easy, but then she doesn't have an intrinsic reason to keep homeschooling into the later grades, and the peer pressure among moms of older kids is less than among moms of littles? I don't know, I just like to brainstorm I guess. 🙂

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  2. On 5/18/2021 at 1:34 AM, lewelma said:

    And he would accept NO help from me, as in NONE. Any instruction, written or oral, was cheating.  

    ARGGHH, my middle kid is like this. I don't know how many conversations we've had about the fact that nobody is born knowing things and that everybody has to learn and practice. Anyway, Miquon is perfect for this kind of kid. 🙂 He's a little better now--he started by accepting instruction from the little monsters in Beast Academy, and he had to grudgingly accept that maybe I knew what I was talking about when I showed him the standard algorithms for multiplication and long division. lol

    On 5/18/2021 at 6:02 AM, knitgrl said:

    I know it's supposed to be a feast, but it looks like indigestion to me.

    Ah, binge-learning. Not quite as relaxing as binge-watching.

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  3. I love how Miquon looks. I can almost smell the mimeograph ink. 😄 Very nostalgia-inducing, and great for my kid who always wanted to figure everything out himself. Miquon to BA was a good trajectory for him. 
     

    I love MEP too. Printing doesn’t bother me, and I like the scripted lessons, even if I usually end up explaining things differently to my kiddo who has dyscalculia. In the middle grades it takes a bit of work to provide enough review, but they have extra problem sets and it’s not hard to come up with some extra practice on topics that need it.

    I was enticed by some of the instagram-worthy programs, but wasn’t able to implement them well. I’m just not organized enough for that sort of thing. And yes, doing math with rocks by the creek was one that I tried. Lol Next year everyone is using BYL and supplementing with their special interests. All of my kids like to read and be read to, so lit-based is our best bet. 

     

     

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  4. 2 hours ago, Condessa said:

     

    I’d love to use evergreen huckleberries.  We used to pick them wild at our old home—their pies are amazing!  Different gardening websites seem to vary as to what their gardening zone range is, whether it would include our zone or not.  But the climate is very different here than there, and they are kind of expensive to buy because of being a more unknown plant.  I’m nervous of spending a lot of money on plants that might or might not make it here.

    I live in the native range of evergreen huckleberries, and while the plants are lovely, I think it would take an awfully long time to grow a hedge. The bushes I planted three years ago are still only about a foot high, and while being in full sun has probably slowed them down a bit, my neighbor's bush  in dappled shade took over ten years to reach 6 feet. 

    21 minutes ago, BlsdMama said:

    We always wondered why we read about people having problems with slugs and snails. Then we moved to the PNW. We discovered something Mind blowing - there are slugs and there are SLUGS. 

    Here in Iowa we have small and slugs, they’re cute and relatively non invasive. We moved and thought the first banana slugs we saw must be the product of some freak accident. Slugs there are enormous and there are a lot of them. So, no, my hostas look awesome pretty much always and I have about 100ish?

    Yep, slugs in the PNW are enormous. I still grow hostas, but they are near some other plants that I think the slugs prefer so they do fine. I have a picture somewhere of a slug that was as long as the blade of a shovel. I only see those monsters at night. lol

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  5. I think a state park would be reasonably safe. Around here at least, the state parks are relatively small and the trails are heavily traveled. In my area, I'd carry bear spray in the more remote state parks, but that may not be a consideration where you live. People do go missing fairly regularly in my area, but mostly in the national parks and forests. I would not hike alone in a remote area. We do not have cell service in many of the places where we hike, which are not especially remote, but I always find it surprising how quickly I can drive from an urban area to the middle of nowhere. 

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  6. 1 hour ago, Harpymom said:

    Harp!  There are plenty of small lap harps, they don't have to be massive concert grands.  There is lots of music written for them: classical, pretty solos of all genres, Celtic, jazz, Christmas, ancient/medieval, even contemporary!  They always sound lovely, even as a beginner, and you can get a small one with just a few octaves or larger with more octaves and levers for accidentals.  One spot for more info: https://www.harpcenter.com/   Don't be shocked by the prices at her website, there are lots of small used harps for sale out there.

    I love the recorder, specifically baroque recorder music, and it's another that's fairly affordable and quick-ish to learn.  You already know how to breathe and read music, it might be different enough from flute to catch your interest but similar enough to dive right in.

    I feel silly now that I never considered that your username meant you played harp. I thought maybe you were a step past mama bear....

    I played piano and clarinet through college, but stopped after my schooling was done. I dabbled here and there with various instruments, until I found the hammered dulcimer and fell  in love. Like harp, it is easy to get a nice sound from, but once you get the basics down there are lots of directions you can go. 

  7. Your meal was great. If a parent has strict rules for what their children eat, they can be responsible for enforcing those rules. My kids haven’t ever had trouble understanding that different parents have different rules, and my kids aren’t neurotypical. Your family has been through a lot, and I wonder if your BIL is micromanaging food because it’s one of the few things that can be controlled at this point? It’s not fair of him to put that on you, though. 

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  8. My ds13, who has many of the same difficulties as your kiddo, made a huge leap between 11 and 13. At 11 we still buddy-read, paragraph by paragraph, and it was difficult and slow going. This year he has devoured the Hunger Games books, Percy Jackson, some random Sci-Fi...I'm kind of amazed. Assigned reading is still another story. lol. His ability to process nonfiction about WW2? Excellent, it's his special interest. His ability to process info from assigned readings? Eh. I find that if I ask him to complete a short outline while he reads it's much better. 

  9. 13 hours ago, Scarlett said:

    When I was 11 a friend of my mom’s pierced my ears with a needle and ice cubes.  I vividly remember that the needle was sterilized.  I have never had a problem.  

    How did she sterilize it? When I pierced my college boyfriend's ear, I soaked the (sewing) needle in alcohol, then burned it with a lighter. I thought I was being responsible. lol. 

  10. 6 minutes ago, kristin0713 said:

    You could most likely find one for free if you look around. People have a hard time giving them away these days. I think buffet tables have mostly replaced china cabinets. 

    This is true. My parents have two giant oak china cabinets that nobody wants, and a friend of mind recently hauled one to the dump because even the thrift stores don’t want them. 

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  11. I have my grandparents’ midcentury modern china hutch. I don’t have china, but it’s full of knickknacks, doodads, fossils, rocks that the kids collected, etc. I’m just about ready to switch out the random stuff for Christmas decorations. 🙂

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  12. I haven't read The Story of Mankind, but my son started it at the beginning of the year, got a few chapters in, and hated it. We're subbing in readings from the series The World in Ancient Times from Oxford University Press. I found most of the volumes used on eBay at a substantial discount. It does require a little extra work from me, but I've found it pretty simple to look at the HO guide and correlate appropriate readings. 

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  13. First set of holes, in lobes, with a gun at a jewelry shop at age 9: still open, despite not wearing earrings regularly since having kids. Second set of holes, in lobes, with a needle in my bathroom at 15: also still open, despite wearing earrings in these holes even less often. Random holes in lobes done at random times with a needle in the bathroom: all closed up. Cartilage piercings done with a gun at age 18 or so: closed up. Cartilage (tragus) piercing done with a needle at around 20 or so: still open, because it's the only piercing I wear a ring in all the time. Navel piercing closed almost immediately after removing ring. I don't remember when I removed it--maybe when I got pregnant with my first? Anyway, despite wearing a ring in it constantly for probably 8-10 years, it closed quickly. 

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