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    violinist, former homeschool mom who graduated 2
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  1. There's another creator of wire bookmarks that has some striking designs. I'm partial to the violin bookmark but there are some really cool animals and other designs.
  2. I'm an extremely busy musician this spring, playing in string quartets for 1 to 3 weddings/week. I can't offer any insight into receptions as I'm only part of the ceremony and sometimes "cocktail hour". Mind you, anyone who can afford a string quartet for an hour or 2 is paying for a very fancy wedding, so while I'm seeing what the expensive weddings look like, I'm sure aspects are universal. There are very few traditional ceremonies, though by law certain vows have to be spoken (Do you take X to be your lawfully wedded spouse is, I believe, the required bit). Here in California, anyone can get a license to perform a marriage, so I've only seen a few actual clergy. Most couples want to write their own vows, too. I've loved that a few officiants ask that the ceremony be cell phone free, offering one or two photo ops, but otherwise asking guests to be focused on the ceremony and not posting on social media. There is no bride's side or groom's side in the seating, no grooms escorting guests to their seats. People can sit wherever they like. There are no rules as to who is marching in to music. Sometimes the parents come down the aisle, sometimes they are just already sitting when the ceremony starts. Sometimes the music is the same for the parents and attendants, sometimes there is a special song for the parents. Generally groomsmen escort the bridesmaids down the aisle. Some grooms want to come down the aisle to their own tune. The sweetest was the groom and his dog to the tune of Queen's "You're My Best Friend", the most questionable was the groom coming in to the "Game of Thrones" theme song, pumping his fists in the air as he went down the aisle. Ummmm, dude....everyone dies in Game of Thrones! Oh, and in the last 2 weeks there have been 2 weddings with what I call "flower dudes", grown men who come in just before the bride to scatter rose petals in the aisle, on guests, in the air.... One dude had pinned flowers in hair! As to music. Anything goes. Anything. We played gaming music and movie music a few weeks back, everything from Avengers to Zelda, with "Concerning Hobbits" from Lord of the Rings as the attendants and flower dude came down the aisle. Lots of brides pick very detailed lists of tunes for the prelude (the half hour before the ceremony) music she will never hear and most guests ignore. It's background music to set a mood. Pick a genre and let the DJ, friend, or musicians pick the tunes. As to the ceremony music, well, nobody wants the traditional "Here Comes the Bride", instead wanting a pop tune of choice. The tricky part to that is letting the guests know it is time to stand for the bride's entrance. The officiant can help with that. And nobody wants the old traditional recessional music. Anything fun and upbeat is the go to. Music tip: Consider how long a walk it is to the ceremony site/alter. Sometimes the bride is down the aisle before the song really gets going. Other times she has a major hike and the tune has to be repeated over and over and over!! Or there are a bazillion pokey attendants and the tune is over before they are all in. If you have live musicians, have someone cue them as to when to start the music! "Cocktail hour" is what it sounds like, an hour where the wedding party and family pose for photographs while the guests chat, eating hor d'oeuvres and drinking wine or whatever. That is definitely a part of a high-end wedding, and not every wedding gig I play includes cocktail hour, or doesn't include live musicians for that hour. Most of these weddings are at venues that exist solely for weddings with a picturesque spot for the ceremony and a nice tent for the dinner. A few have been backyard weddings. Last week one was dockside and everyone sailed off for a sunset reception aboard a fancy catamaran. And if your young couple likes the idea of live music for the ceremony, you aren't limited to a string quartet. You could have a trio, a duet, a soloist, a single harpist, an acoustic guitarist. And that's all I've got for you -- I'm generally driving home before the reception gets underway!
  3. Yes, Presbyterian (PCUSA). For just over a year now, there are choices of virtual service on YouTube or Zoom, and weekly services in the courtyard where everyone is masked and seating well distanced. There have been drive-in services, too. It is Southern California, so the weather is rarely an issue. The singer and pastor take their masks off as needed to sing or talk, but otherwise are masked. Our congregation is older, and most of them are now fully vaccinated and impatient about getting back into the sanctuary. There was an email just last week begging everyone to stay patient, reminding everyone we are still following public health guidelines, and a gentle reminder to love thy neighbor as many of us are still impatiently waiting for our turn at a vaccination. I'm a church musician (violin/fiddle), and have to say we rock both traditional and contemporary praise music!! We've had monthly recording sessions since last March for all the virtual services, and I play the in-person services about once a month, too. I stay masked for both recording and performing. I know the traditional choir is chomping at the bit to get back to singing, but our music director is young and not yet vaccinated. Instead we've done those zoom-style video recordings for special occasions.
  4. @Matryoshka You inspired me to check out the Chinese duolingo and had fun just now testing to see my level. It gave me a "ta-da" and said I've tested out of 12 skills. It was actually a great way to review!
  5. Disneyland in Anaheim will be enforcing mask wearing by guests and cast members. Furloughed employees (including my ds) are waiting for word on when (and if) they will be returning to work. Employees all have to go through COVID training before returning to work, which I assume will NOT be sessions held in tiny meeting rooms with cast members stuffed in like sardines, lol! There is a petition here in So Cal to delay the reopening, but the opening is scheduled for July 17, the 65th anniversary of the park.
  6. I listened to a nice bit of fluff last week, The Jane Austen Society. The only thing to rave about is the narration by Richard Armitage who has a fine voice and the acting chops to bring a wide cast of characters to life. But the book itself is just a solid ok. For me, for this fraught time, it was a nice gentle escape, with decent enough writing, and not too predictable a plot. I also started listening to another book by the late drummer for the band Rush, Neil Peart. This time it is Traveling Music, his musings on the musical inspirations of his life as he takes a road trip from LA to Big Bend. His description of driving out of Los Angeles on I-10 perfectly captures the land and the city - one of the best descriptions I've read. This week I've added another audiobook, the next installment of the Vorkosigan saga, Brothers in Arms. It's hard to focus on print books at the moment. With an audiobook and some kind of hand work -- knitting or embroidery or quilting -- I can get my mind off the greater world and some assorted family stuff. @mumto2 I know it isn't recorded on Goodreads, but I read Affinity Bridge a few years ago and recall enjoying it. I think I read the 2nd book too, but couldn't get my hands on the any of the subsequent titles. @Lori D. So cool you are reading the Sharon Kay Penmen mysteries!! I know I read the first 2, and perhaps the 3rd? I'm thinking I'd need to reread them now before getting to the 4th. @Negin I appreciate the review of the newer Julie Andrews memoir! I really enjoyed the first a few years back and downloaded this one to my kindle a few weeks ago when it was on sale. @Violet Crown Which Godzilla? The original or one of the recent Hollywood versions? Excuse me while I free-associate...Just the mention of Godzilla and the Blue Oyster Cult song gets stuck in my head once again. Those of you of a certain age (ahem) may know it, but for those of you who don't, I must share a recent music video made for this rock and roll gem from 1977.
  7. Stumbling in, late as usual. I had actual things to do last week which felt stressfully busy after 3 months of not doing much of anything. I even put make up on my face as I was recording music and thought I should make an attempt at looking decent, lol! It was odd, too, to have to play "for reals" after hardly touching my violin since March. Books were read last week, though! I really enjoyed the romance Love Lettering, which Kareni read some months back. The novel, and the romance, is centered around signs and fonts, and on the art of hand lettering. I'm wondering if the print edition has words and phrases written in the fonts being described as the Kindle certainly did not. It didn't really matter, I have a good imagination, but I can imagine a fancy print edition with illustrations. I also finished Tea Ohbreht's Inland, which was a totally unexpected and different novel. It is a Western, featuring 2 different story lines (2 different narrators in the audio edition), with a stubborn feisty woman in Arizona territory at the close of the 1800s, and a Turkish immigrant whose story we hear as he talks to his camel. There are ghosts, there is a scarcity of water, all told through some exquisite writing. The opening chapters were gritty and off putting, but I kept coming back to listen to chunks and was hooked once the camels were introduced. I've got 2 audio books going this week. The Jane Austen Society is a quiet, gentle book set in Chawton at the end of WWII. Chawton, for those of you who don't know, was the home for a period of time, of Jane Austen. While the book caught my eye because of the title, I readily used an audible credit for it as it is read by Richard Armitage. And I'm listening to another memoir by Neil Peart, the late drummer for the band Rush. I'm so not a fan of Rush, but he was a really interesting man, someone who read widely and loved all sorts of music and wrote interesting books about his travels. The book I'm listening to is Road Music: The Soundtrack to My Life and Times.
  8. I'm going to do this in backwards order and post first then read the thread. Some weeks I start reading the thread with the intention of posting afterwards, but get pulled away and never come back. Last week was one of those weeks. It wasn't like I was doing anything with my time. Just felt the need for naps almost everyday, lol! My armchair travel is taking me to Ireland this week, thanks to some good finds on Kindle. Last summer I visited County Sligo, Ireland, a part of Ireland near and dear to the heart of WB Yeats. In honor of that visit, I'm reading a collection of his, Fairy and Folk Tales of the Irish Peasantry. A good collection of short entries, the sort you can pick up and put down as needed. I've also downloaded another Kindle freebie, The Tour: A feel-good Irish Springtime Read about a tour bus driver in Ireland and the American tourists he is transporting around the country. I adored our Irish tour bus driver and guides, and based on the good reviews, am hoping to vicariously enjoy another visit! Last week's read was another in the Peter Grainger British police procedural mysteries featuring DC Smith. I really like these -- the police detective is NOT a brooding, psychologically damaged renegade! And, even better, they are NOT gruesome, either. I haven't noted it on Goodreads, but it was Luck and Judgement. These will work as stand alones, but as with most mystery series it is better in order. Can't remember if I raved sufficiently about the cozy Sicilian mystery Auntie Poldi and the Sicilian Lions. This was utterly delightful with lots of food, Mt. Etna and all sorts of colorful characters. Definitely will look for the others in the series. In my ear buds is Inland by Tea Obreht and BBC radio dramatizations of three Lord Peter mysteries. The first dramatization is of Murder Must Advertise, which I've only read once, a few years ago. It wasn't a favorite, but the dramatization is entertaining.
  9. And every single professional musician is out of work at the moment, unless they are teaching via Zoom. I was purposefully down to only 3 students this year, none of whom want to do video lessons, and of course all my spring gigs were cancelled. Fortunately for us, we are not dependent on my meager income as a musician!
  10. Yes Robin -- that is really wonderful news that the financial pressure is off for your business. But, aren't you (couldn't you be considered) essential? I took my laptop to a computer repair place last week, and it was really nicely set up with a line out side marked with tape, and the way they disinfected everything when it was your turn at the door. It was safe, they were friendly and happily my fix was super easy.
  11. Comfort reads with armchair travel might describe my recent reads. I stumbled upon what looks to be a gem of a gentle, cozy-ish mystery series. Auntie Poldi and the Sicilian Lions by Mario Giordano features a German woman of Italian descent, a widow with a decided crush on policemen in uniform, who decides to retire in Sicily when she turns 60. It is filled with descriptions of food and of Sicily, and is filled with quirky characters. Most importantly it is making me smile and laugh. The 2 and 3 star reviews on Goodreads are no doubt by the young and boringly ironic or cynical who can't appreciate light whimsy done well. It must have been written in German as the author, who lives in Cologne, is a German of Italian descent with a decidedly Italian name. Also delightful was another in the Vorkosigan space opera series, this time about a geneticist from an all male planet in search of ovarian culture to continue growing boy babies! I kid you not! The scientist in Ethan of Athos has never seen a woman, the religion on his planet teaches that women are evil abominations, so naturally his misadventures off planet pairs him up with a feisty woman. Best of all, there is not a predictable budding love interest with the woman -- at the end of the book he returns home to his all male planet with a new boyfriend. I say best of all because I'm always happy when an author does not twist the plot in predictable ways. Kitchens of the Great Midwest was a title I picked up at the library used book sale back in early February before I knew I needed a tall stack of books to read. It is a novel with recipes, following the life of a woman from birth through her 20s. A pleasant diversion -- a solid ok as my son would say. The least delightful last week was Hard Rain, a thriller translated from Afrikaans that is set in Tanzania. It wasn't bad, just sort of o.k, though I really wanted to like it as the female author, Irma Venter, says in the blurb that she likes creating strong women characters.
  12. @mumto2 Have you ever read the historical mysteries written by Sharon Kay Penman? The series of 4 books, all set in the time of Eleanor of Aquitaine, has all the great period detail as her other books, plus great characters and a mystery, and starts with The Queen's Man. It's been 20 years or more since I read the first 2, but I really loved them. Just discovered on Goodreads just now that there are 2 more, but I'm almost afraid to revisit the series as my reading tastes have changed so much. @Kareni I read the first Chalion book last year, but never got to the rest of the series. The Vorkosigan series, also by Lois McMaster Bujold, has been just the right comfort read the last few weeks. I'm another who loved Kim, but never thought of it as a children's book. High school, yes, which is when I assigned it. I remember feeling the book is infused with Kipling's love of India, his longing for that home he had known.
  13. Oldest books on my shelf? I have 2 books from my dad's childhood (he was born in 1920), one of which is a paperback One Hundred and One Favorite Poems, printed in 1928 and apparently re-gifted to my dad as it has two handwritten inscriptions. The other has no copyright but I assume is also from the 1920s. It is Rudyard Kipling's Wee Willie Winkie, and it has the softest suede-like cover. I've got 2 of my mom's high school texts from the 1930s, one a Handbook of Composition by Woolley, Scott & Tressler, and the other is Hamlet. The oldest book on my shelves is Longfellow's Evangeline, a tale of Arcadia printed in the 1860s. I have no idea how this came to be on my shelves!! I've got a few books from the 1950s that were part of my and my older brothers' childhood. And several of my own books, from Land of Oz to Nancy Drew to paperbacks I got from Scholastic. I even still have one or two college text books. I also have the 1927 and 1928 high school year books of my husband's grandmother. The paper in those is such excellent quality -- nothing printed today feels as nice. Or were you just challenging us to find the oldest in our teetering, dusty TBR stacks?!
  14. I finished a really good mystery today, the first in a series about a Scottish detective working on cold cases. It was The Distant Echo by Val McDermid. Have any of my fellow mystery readers read any of these? (Looks at Goodreads....sees that Mumto2 has read them!!) I really enjoyed this one and will certainly read the others in the series.
  15. The seeds I'd sewn in pots set on the kitchen window have just sprouted. Grow little herbs! Grow little beans! Now if I can get my hands on some tomato seeds or seedlings...or spinach. Renee's Garden catalog seed company is overwhelmed with orders and out of some basics. I am doing lots of mindless reading. I've got 2 hours to go in the audio of the sci-fi Vorkosigan saga, Cetaganda. Great mindless listen for sewing or puzzling. Not surprised Robin has the weeks wrong starting these threads, but I'm so impressed with you remembering it is Sunday!! Time is so weirdly meaningless these days. At the end of each day I'm always a little stunned at how little I actually accomplished, or at how much time I spent doing the oddest things. Like, for instance, the hour or more I spent browsing all the books on Kindle Unlimited. Apparently it is important to pick just the right mindless read, free of charge. Two that I'm currently reading are Your Perfect Year, A Novel, a romantic comedy translated from German, and Where's Me Plaid? a Scottish travel book about a young man and his wife exploring Crawford family history in Scotland. Both books helped me stay awake long enough to give my dog her antibiotics last night, which are due every 8 hours. She had emergency surgery yesterday to deal with a nasty infected abscess, and now she is rocking the cone of shame while high on painkillers! We were trying to tweak the antibiotic schedule to avoid the middle of the night dose, but...well...this whole time thing. We forgot to give her the meds this afternoon, so I'm up til 1am again tonight. (Jigsaw puzzle and audiobook kept me going tonight.) Alright...time to give the dog her meds. Goodnight!
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