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  1. SO stupid. Baby Einstein of course didn't make kids smarter....I knew that but still bought a lot of their stuff and loved it. Unfortunately lawyers will do anything to make money and there are gullible people who don't use their heads and research things before they buy. I know one family who loved the Your Baby Can Read series....but they also knew that it didn't really promise anything. Very stupid.

  2. $95 for three cards. After that, I cut up two of the cards and now we only use one for the whole family. That one card also has a limit of 30 books, which at first irritated me, but then I decided that I don't really need more than 30 books out at one time. Also, something our library system did was to put a cap on the total fines. Now, if your fines reach $5 you can't check out new books, order books via inter library loan, or renew books. I thought this was brilliant actually, and this has saved me so much money over the last couple of years.

    I love this. Our library system works the same way. And we can return books to ANY library branch which helps a lot too....people shouldn't be penalized for returning them to the wrong library if there are multiple branches in the town.

  3. Sorry, I think it is stupid to take a baby to any movie unless it's a kids only showing-especially a movie like the Batman series which is LOUD and can damage baby hearing and it very well could scare the child....disturbing others and having parents not being able to get their money's worth. No one can predict what a baby would do at a theater, so it is best to avoid them alltogether. I stupidly tried it once and never again until my son was 6. You can wait to see a movie if you can't get a sitter.

     

    BUT, that does not mean anyone should have been harmed because of this decision. The baby, nor the parents, deserved any of this. NO ONE did. I don't agree with the decision but I do agree they should have the right to view a movie without fear of their lives. It is not their fault it happened. It was time and unforseen occurance and I am sure they would have stayed home if they knew what would happen.

     

    A 6 year old is a bigger and older child-I can easily see an older child on summer vacation being excited to see the new Batman movie and what a treat it would be to see it at the first midnight showing. I wouldn't do it...my 6 year old can't handle this intense of a series yet. I think it depends on the child, and if the parents feel comfortable with that child viewing Batman. If it wasn't a work night I would gladly take my son to a midnight viewing of a Pixar movie maybe. Again though, I don't get the victim blaming either. People have the right to go to movies in peace without fear of violence and the only person at fault is the gunman.

  4. Oh, please. However is a letter that is cautious in tone and makes clear a response is optional invading one's territory, even "in a sense?" Hostility? Nakia is under no obligation, real or implied, to send a response, so what is the big deal? You know what? I want our public schools to succeed. My kids aren't going to be living in a vacuum, but as part if a larger community which is comprised primarily of publicly schooled individuals. If you live in an area hostile (real or perceived) to homeschoolers, by all means, keep your cards close to your chest, but the idea we have to run to HSLDA if one of "them" even dares to contact us is paranoid at worst and silly at best. I have seen letters that misrepresent the obligations of homeschoolers wrt information gathering, etc. This does not fall into that category.

    :iagree::iagree:

  5. I probably would actually answer it, though I get the mistrust. I could even be wrong for answering it but personally don't see any harm in responding. Of course he has a vested interest in his own district---which is fine, since all kids deserve a great education regardless of the method used. I don't see anything wrong with them trying to advertise themselves better or anything else... I am suspicious by nature with some things, but this wouldn't bother me. Of course my area is very "meh" about education period and I am in an easy state for homeschooling.

     

    They can market and advertise all the want, and I won't change my mind. LIke it or not the public school system is here to stay and is very much needed by many families, and not all public or private schools are horrible evil messes. If they want to improve themselves or improve their advertising, so be it. If it is a real concern, call him up and chat him up. Ask him why he wants to know. I'd be very curious but not hostile.

  6. Not having someone to watch your kids IS a pretty darn good excuse in my book if I can't find someone and can't afford someone to watch them. I would definitely work my hardest to find someone or try and save money so someone could watch them, but if neither of that happened THEN I would try and postpone it until I couldn't postpone anymore. IF, and only if, at that point I had the same circumstances I'd take them with me and oh well to them.

  7. I agree there are rich and poor everywhere, but your comment about a sick child is a bit of a hyperbole. My children have racked up close to a million dollars in medical bills, one of my sons had four surgeries by the time he was 4 weeks old, and we don't live in our car. That is thanks to private insurance and the fact that excellent, non profit children's hospitals are willing to take payments based on your income. Our health care system has problems, but it is sad that all the great non-profit hospitals who provide such great care to our poor, often for free, get demonized along with the others.

     

    It is much easier for a centralized govt to run a nationalized health care service when they are only serving 40 million people, or even 140 million people as compared to 300 million.

    Unfortunately this isn't possible for everyone. Not all can afford private insurance and while many hospitals do take payments, it can still be a big hardship on a family. I have seen the families of some of my friends go through this and at least one has filed bankruptcy due to the bills. You are fortunate, not everyone is.

  8. I could not *disagree* more. Hate Walmart with a fiery passion. I was thrilled when Germany booted the company out of the country. Yea, for Germany.

     

     

    Really, the US is really not the dream land that many think it is.

    Ehh Walmart isn't that great in customer service either. I live here, enjoy some great things, but I see other things that are more important to me that happen in other countries. Sweden, Finland, parts of Canada...those are places where I wouldn't mind living.

  9. Huh.

     

    We live in Florida. My daughter eats in her room frequently. Her guests do, too. It owuld never occur to me not to allow it unless we'd had a specific problem. (We haven't.)

     

    What I think is unfair here is that you're upset that the other kid hasn't followed your rules, even though she had no way of knowing they existed.

     

    (And, for what it's worth, I don't think I'd feel especially comfortable in your home, either, given the way you've described your irritation with this guest.)

    :iagree: I have to agree. I would try to get to know the girl first before assuming anything. Talk with the daughter and remind of house rules and remind her why they need to be followed. Ask her about the girl and her home life. When it comes to teens don't assume anything. There is no use in sitting and speculating when it is more productive to try to get to the bottom of things. It may explain her behavior and persona. Try to even get to know her, although kids are pretty sensitive and can pick up when someone does not like them or if they feel like someone does not like them.

  10. If someone inside or outside homeschooling asks what grade they are in, I mention a number (or letter in my case still) and leave it at that. I don't care what level your homeschooler is and I know many people don't care that your kid can do work above grade level. I don't advertise anything about mine unless it does come up ("how is his reading going?" "Oh he is doing well, he reads at x level and seems to be doing well."). Really...I think it is neat you have above averge or gifted kids but I don't care about levels-especially when I first meet you-I just want to know about you and your family as people and hopefully form some great friendships.

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