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  1. I think I'd have an easier time wrapping my brain around this if it was just the baby-sitter (who was, I assume, somewhere around his own age) or even the oldest sister (who was not involved apparently). She would have been 12 when he was 14. Maybe even the next oldest who would have been 11. From there the sisters get so much younger, down to 5, that touching their little girl bodies becomes gross, or at least something that should be gross, to a teenage boy. You are 100% right when you say curious about girls does not equal curious about small children.

    When you can look at a FIVE year old and think, "I gotta get me some of that!," there is no coming back from that point. That isn't just a "bad choice," that's pedophilia for FFS!

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  2. I certainly hope none of your children EVER make any mistakes... of course then YOU will probably forgive them, but NO one else should since YOU don't (if it is someone else's child... especially if you already hate the family anyway).

    I can't freaking stand people who defend childhood sexual abuse. How gross. Remember when you were done with this forum? I do...

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    I watched some clips of this interview and I'm completely disgusted. I'm fully convinced JG is a narcissist or has some sort of mental illness. And his wife isn't too far behind. I feel horrible for those girls and not because the report came out.

    Very much this. And it is clear that Josh is the golden child. Guess Jill and Jessa get to be the scapegoats :/

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  5. Walgreen made a statement that they are monitoring the situation.

     

    I can't get the link to copy and paste. Tues, May 26, 2015 Reuters Los Angeles. I guess you'll have to google it. Why is it that Windows 8 has to be so darn finicky...one minute copy and paste works, the next minute it doesn't????

    Walgreens replied to me:

    Hello Debra, In the wake of recent news, we are no longer advertising on the ‘19 Kids and Counting’ program.

     

     

    I hope they mean it.

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  6. That said I am sticking with Jimscum because the girl's counseling was at Journey of the Heart c amp here in Michigan which is just abuse heaped on abuse...re-educate the girls to understand that they should be thankful it happened to them. This is what that camp at the Northwoods Conference Center in Watersmeet, MI is known for, and I cannot stomach that.!

    Faith, where did you find this info? It's germaine to a Facebook debate I'm in, lol.

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  7. I'm trying to be more relaxed in my parenting, but I fully admit to being a helicopter parent. I think it is due partly to my own experiences, and partly due to how sick my daughter was her first few years. I *know* what kids can get up to when they aren't closely supervised, because I was one of those kids. In fact, I'm less fearful of "stranger danger" scenarios than I am of what can happen amongst her peers. I know that I can't protect her forever, but I feel less anxious for her every year she gets older and more mature. I want to help preserve her childhood as long as possible, because I pretty much lost mine from ages 8-10. What occurred during those years has had a lasting impact on the rest of my life, and has affected every relationship I have had.

     

    I am certainly not anti free range, and I fully respect a parents right to evaluate for themselves the inherent risks and benefits of allowing more freedom for their children. Unless they are passed out drunk or drugged, I'm loathe to label a parent as "neglectful" for choosing to parent in a way that im not personally comfortable doing. I get extremely angry over families that are put through the wringer with police and cps because someone, somewhere has decided that allowing children to walk to a park by themselves is negligent. That is just bullshit. Maybe once those social agencies have tackled all of the true cases of neglect and abuse that they willfully overlook, then they can start tackling the parents that are able and willing to feed, clothe, bathe, and provide medical care to their children.

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  8. I'm a NICU nurse, so I would love to see technology improve the outcomes for severely early preemies, by the use of an artificial environment that more closely resembles a natural environment. Ideally, I would love to see a treatment for pregnancy induced hypertension that didn't necessitate early delivery, incompetent cervixes, preterm spontaneous rupture of membranes, and infections that cause preterm labor, etc.

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  9. When I read the original post I thought for certain it was a joke. I am not saying this to be offensive. It's just that BA seems totally innocuous to me and have a hard time understanding how little cartoon animals and math can lead to Satanism. However, I can completely understand the OP's desire not to use a curriculum that might make her uncomfortable. Maybe there is a different forum or a subforum on the WTM site that could have been a safer place to ask this question? If she is at all uncomfortable with this, she should just skip it.

     

    Having said that....I have a six year old who has no number sense (yet) and while lurking around the (wonderful) Learning Challenges Board I saw a lot of people mentioning CLE as a great math program for kids who struggle with numbers. I popped over to their website to check out their math program, and even though it is Christian program and clearly states this in the name, I was so surprised how much God they inserted into their math curriculum. It really felt like indoctrination. I normally am good at editing programs as we go, but I had visceral reaction to what felt cult-like to me. I am bothered by what feels like blatant brainwashing. For a nanosecond I considered asking if other people felt this way and were still able to use what otherwise looks like a solid program, but then I just decided we would find another route.

    I attended christian school from 5th grade until graduation. I reallyreallyreally wanted to avoid all non secular curriculum options for my daughter, as a result of my "education". It was with great reluctance that I purchased CLE, but I'm soooo glad that I did. The math hasn't been too bad, but the language arts contains quite a bit of religious content. It has made me twitchy at times, because I strongly object to any YEC taught as fact. I am definitely dropping their social studies and science, but will keep the math and LA, because my daughter loves them, they get done without complaint, she is learning tons, and she tells anyone who asks, that math is her favorite subject! If there was a math program that was similar to CLE, but secular, I would be all over it. Unfortunately, I haven't found anything, so CLE it is.

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  10. Wow. I am soooo sorry. I freaking can't stand ten minutes of screaming, so I can't even imagine hours and hours of it, and more than one doing it. If you aren't heavily medicated or an alcoholic by now, you are a better woman than me, because I would be both. That is really unfortunate that you don't have much support 😥

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  11. I am just blown away. I had no idea this was a concern. I really need to climb out from under my rock more often.

    Nope. Don't do it. Life is so much more peaceful and joyful when one doesn't go looking for reasons to be offended.

     

    Just to contribute nothing to this thread, I will add that I still, 30 years later, have a "contraband" unicorn figurine that a friend got me. I had to keep it hidden, because we weren't allowed to have unicorns, because Satan! Duh. I still have it. Clearly, the Satanic indoctrination worked, because we love us some Harry Potter over here, and if dogs don't have souls, ain't nothing has a soul!

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  12. I bought my Dyson as a refurbished basic model about 12 years ago. My mom has had her Dyson even longer. If mine died tomorrow I would save up for another Dyson. It is over your budget, but you might find a good deal on a refurbished one.

     

    I just checked, and eBay has some great deals, with free shipping. The prices on overstock.com don't look bad, either.

  13. This isn't so much a "mentality," as it is a difference in values. I personally, place absolutely little value on team sports, so I'm not going to spend my time on money on such things. I also don't relate well to people that do, and that's ok, because they won't likely relate well to me based on my values. From your post, you seem to highly value church activities and more traditional ideas of "family time." I find very little value in church and traditional family activities, especially those that occur on Sundays. In fact, I purposefully schedule myself to work on weekends. That is because the activities that i do value tend to take place during the week. We all value things differently, and tend to spend our time and money on things we value highly.

     

    I think it would be safe to assume that what you and I and everyone else on this board value highly, is our children's education :) That is the common bond that brings us together on this forum, interacting with and supporting one another, as we try to provide our children with what we feel is the best for them. Understanding that most parents are trying to do what they feel is best for their family is important, whether that be sports, church, dance, cheer, drama, robotics, whatever.

  14. Ruth, I want to be you when I grow up! Have you ever given any thought to teaching a class on evolution to the WTM crowd? I would totally pay for that! You have such a great way of explaining things, that it actually makes me feel like I have a hope of understanding it all.

  15. I don't understand sorry.

    There's hard proof of evolution? It has been witnessed? Can you point me to it please, and not the theoretical side.

    Well, to be honest, I have no time to put together a post listing the vast amounts of evidence that exists. I trust that if you were so inclined, you would be as perfectly capable of searching out resources as I was. Has evolution been witnessed? Of course it has! How else do you think scientists have been able to understand the processes that have shaped biology? Evolution isn't based on a guess that some atheist came up with to do away with God. There is enough evidence for it to become an actual scientific theory, just like the theory of gravity. That is a pretty big deal!

  16. Is MUS working for your children? If it is, then can you just add to it to increase the challenge? I would be hesitant to do away with a program that was otherwise working. I love CLE for my daughter, but after trying mastery based programs that didn't work well for her, I made the switch to CLE for its spiral review. I find it fairly easy to accelerate, but only because I started her at the beginning and the work was easy for her. We also skip the quizzes and tests, and she will be working on math all summer. Also, the first light unit is review, so we skip that. I'm hoping she will be close to where I want her to be next year.

     

    If you are seriously considering CLE, definitely download the free placement tests.

  17. I wouldn't allow my daughter to do it, but I sure as heck would do it for her! Life is much too short to have to deal with unwanted facial hair. I think I would be more inclined to do it at home with the prewaxed strips. That way I could premedicate with ibuprofen and use a ice pack before and after to deal with any discomfort. I think this method would last the longest, cause less pain, and minimize re growth. I don't think shaving is a good idea, and I have seen a bad reaction to Nair. Salon waxing can be pretty painful for some people. Laser hair removal is expensive and painful, and burns can happen. Their are a lot of hair removal options, but not many good ones, unfortunately.

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