Well he's not too far ahead of me. The divorce papers are just a generic check here, filled out in his own handwriting. So no lawyer yet, and since money is so important to him I doubt he has hired one yet. I don't know where he is living, he packed and left. Fortunately I got the house key from him, so he can't come and go as he pleases.
Today I see my therapist and hope to come up with a plan.