I think that their "regression" comes with being forced to grow up while they are away. In college, you children are subjected to all kinds of new ideas and way of life that they have never known about especially if they have been very sheltered. They come back home wanting to be kids again. They ask a lot of questions because they want your opinion. They trust your opinion over professors and peers. It can be a hard transition especially if they are unhappy at their school and want to transfer.

The first day of class usually consists of the teachers going over syllabi. Sometimes you are even told that the book is optional. Depending on what kind of courses you are taking, you may need to bring some books to class on a regular basis but, in my experience, professors will let you know when and if you even need them. Don't put the strain on your back if you don't need to.

I'd like to add a few items to the list: post-its for daily reminders, a file folder box with important documents related to school, car (if he's taking one), health insurance, etc., blank cd's (thumb drive will work but, just so he can share information with others), note books (I suggest buying ones with folders inside them), and a good, sturdy backpack! Good luck!

I would encourage her to learn Spanish. If she wants to take German later in life for fun or in college, she can. Spanish is invaluable to learn these days. If she can understand and speak Spanish, she will have so many more job opportunities than if she learned German. I am from Texas so, I understand the importance of the language just as you do in Southern California. I know she may be very interested in German, but speaking Spanish will be a much better skill to add to her repertoire.

I think that when children are older and "study" literature people often question why it is important. I have always enjoyed English and literature so, I might be a bit biased. I think that it is very important because it teaches them how to analyze. They analyze literature by identifying themes, symbols, etc. Later in life, they have the skills to critique and analyze writing. It may seem unimportant but, I think that it teaches lasting skills.

My neighbors do have keys to my house. I would definitely mind if they let themselves in to borrow and egg without asking first. However, if they asked, I would be fine with it. I think it is important to have good neighbors you can trust. We have exchanged keys and have been in one anothers houses without us being there but, never would this be done without permission. That is strange on TOO many levels.

I agree with jenbrdsly. I've heard from other teachers that this is their goal/norm for homework. Children with ADHD, ADD, etc. shouldn't get special treatment persay but, I would suggest reaching out to your DDs teacher and letting them know about these "I'm going to pull my hair out of my head" moments for you and your childs sake. If something is left unfinished, and you send in a note of explanation, a teacher should understand and extend the due date. It is hard for kids to complete homework especially after a long, tiresome day at school when their medicine is wearing off. In fact, its almost inevitable that they will get frustrated and upset. I would suggest trying to work with the teacher to come to some sort of arrangement....Good luck!