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  1. Be encouraged Laura. The boy may not ever 'like' you as a child. But if you keep pressing on, investing in him, and being the best stepmother you can to him, chances are one day, he will appreciate it.

    Thank you for saying that :001_smile:

     

    I'm not sure if I should actually say anything to her or have dh say anything. That would just cause more problems. I just have to stop letting it bug me.

  2. I like the idea of a C name, so you have two M's and two C's. I like Cora and Christopher.

    :iagree:

     

    Christabel/Christabelle is one of my favorite names, it means beautiful Christ follower.

     

    Other C names; Caitlyn, Caleb, Charles, Candace, Carter, Connor, Cooper, Carly, Charlotte, Caroline, Carrie, Catherine, Chyenne, Chase, Charity, Chasity, Chelsea

     

    Can you tell I research baby names too much! :D

  3. I'm so sick of my MIL judging everything we do. It's everything, ALL.THE.TIME.

     

    Her latest was saying I shouldn't care about dss12 because I'm not his mother and he'll always hate me. :confused: This was said after I told her how things are improving with him. After she said that I didn't respond and said I should start dinner and walked away.

     

    How do you deal with someone like this? She's over our house at least once a week, she goes to our church, she is actively involved in our lives. Dh doesn't want to cut off the relationship because if he does he'll lose his relationship with his dad, and I could never do that to him. I try to blow it off I really do, but I cannot stand it.

     

    Sigh..

  4. I say let him ask her and let the chips fall where they may. Just because the girl he likes has a friend who likes him should not prevent him from asking the girl he likes.

     

    FWIW, though, I am not against a 16 yo pairing off with someone he "likes," so I wouldn't be pushing the "group" thing to begin with. My dd went to homecoming with someone special, but also as a group; some were paired, some weren't.

     

    :iagree:

  5. At the public high school the only AP class a freshman can take is AP US History (unless they've tested outed of classes or are going to graduate early). This is a newer thing because when ds17 was a freshman he couldnt take AP classes.

     

    That being said if your ds is motivated to take this class I would definitely let him. You always have the summer to prepare for the essay writing and/or any other areas that need improving.

  6. I dropped dd14 off at gymnastics at 12 she texted me at 3 asking if she could go to over a friends to do homework and if I could pick her up at 6 and take her to dance.

     

    When I got to her friends house no one was home, except her friends 18yo brother he said they we're there around 3:15 but then left again.

     

    No idea where they went. Her phone is going straight to voice mail. I've also called her friend and friends parents and no answer from either. Dh is calling all her friends parents and see if shes been over anyone else's house or if they know where she is.

     

    Someone tell me to stop freaking out. :scared:

  7. You know how sometimes frustrated parents say that to difficult/acting out kids? Well, before you wish that on them, please member their poor future spouse who'll have to deal with that kid as well. :smash::willy_nilly::boxing_smiley: A future spouse who might not deserve it like your kid does.

     

    Thank you,

     

    Mrs. Warde (the mother of a son who is just like his daddy was at that age.)

     

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    This is a public service announcement brought to you by ds5 and the Association to Prevent --> :banghead:

     

    :iagree::iagree: :banghead:

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