I was using authoritative as discussed here: http://psychology.about.com/od/childcare/f/authoritative-parenting.htm This is what I aim for.

I've never been a directive person, mostly just easygoing and I find it easy to put myself in a child's shoes and see their point of view. I have had to become more authoritative as my family has grown just to keep the household functioning.

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Can anyone recommend favorite moving vehicle books for toddlers? Something that will not drive Mommy insane when reading it for the 10 millionth time? :D Yep, I have a little boy...

When we lived in a neighborhood with a lot of kids, I disabled the doorbell so they would have to knock instead of ringing (I also had nappers). We also put up a Stop sign on the front door when we were doing school or just didn't want visitors.

I am thinking there may be less class/lecture time but more small group or one on one tutorial time? I also suspect the students are expected to do more learning via reading and writing, rather than listening to a lecture.

Ugh, I've lived in a neighborhood like this, except it wasn't just yards--the kids ran in and out of everyone's houses like they owned them. It took me forever to get it through their heads that if they wanted to come into my house they needed to knock first and wait for me to open the door and invite them in (or not)--and even then we had problems with kids breaking in and playing in our house while we were away. One possible way to frame your response is that you are concerned about liability issues if someone gets hurt and you do not want neighborhood children playing in your yard unless you have made plans to supervise them.

Average at most schools is 14-16, with a range of 12-21 for full-time students in the schools I am aware of. At my college, 18 credit hours was the upper limit you could take without petitioning for special permission, but in some departments such as music the time in class was significantly higher than the credit hours; some classes met for two hours a week but awarded only 0.5 credits. Foreign language and math classes also typically met for five hours a week but awarded only 4 credit hours. I think I was usually in class with a faculty member at least 20 hours per week.

If I were to put my kids in school, I would strongly consider a Montessori school. Whether it is right for your family is something you will have to decide, but it sounds like at this point you are strongly drawn to that option. I think it sounds like a reasonable choice given your circumstances.

My oldest sister is well known for regularly accomplishing the impossible. She's an amazing person in every way (not being snarky, I have nothing but admiration for her), but growing up in her shadow was not easy--my mom assumed that her oldest child was the norm, and was flummoxed as to why the rest of us never quite measured up :d

Dress appropriately for the activity, consider practicality and comfort. Our church teaches standards for both boys and girls that include covering shoulders and midriffs and avoiding tight or revealing clothing, so we follow those as a general guideline. For middle school, I would want shorts that come at least to the mid thigh, skirts within a couple inches of the knee, and for girls I would avoid clothing designed to be sexually suggestive (doesn't mean it can't be cute and fashionable). Clothing worn for sports, dance, swimming etc. should be appropriate to the activity (i.e., I wouldn't expect dance shorts to be long or leotards to not be snug). I try to teach respect for self and others as the guide for choosing how we present ourselves through our clothing.

If you have the money and it will make your life less stressful, go for it. My personal preference? Pay someone to clean the house and I'll do the yard work, I much prefer working outside :D

I prioritize foreign language, math, and music as skill subjects that build incrementally. We school year round, which helps, but there are trade offs. We do not study much formal English grammar in elementary school, nor have we done formal writing. My children read a lot and listen to high quality litererature as audiobooks, I personally believe that is more important to their ultimate development as writers than a formal language arts program in the elementary years. They have picked up spelling on their own. We do memory work, and do science in fits and starts, mostly through reading books together and doing experiments and activities (they think dissections are fun...) I feel their success in science at the upper levels will be best helped by wide reading and experience in the world and nature coupled with strong math skills, I am not worrying about covering a specific set of information at this point. For your family, I would prioritize the things that seem most important to you and the things that ignite your child's interest. I would spend less time on things that come naturally or that you are just trudging through because that's what everyone studies.

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It has never occurred to me to think a baby should be limited to pastels. I have definitely used navy blue for both boys and girls.