Thanks everybody.
I feel a little overwhelmed by all this. The more I read, the more I realise that I too, have many caracteristics of a VSL, although I didn't know. I wish my son's education will fulfill more then it did for me, but ther are so many choices and options, I just don't know where to start.
I think he does have auditory abilities though, as he is able to use audiobooks, and will listen to the book intensively for an entire afternoon, and be able to recite it after. But this is not his favorite mean of learning.
He definetly is a whole to part type of kid, he struggles with the easy, and has an easy time with harder material. Reading is hard for him, phonetics, although he has learned it while he was little, he still struggles. Any whole reading programs available for learning reading?