My dd has never been tested or diagnosed with anything but has definite learning disabilities, specifically has poor working memory and just can't get Math. I am suspecting that her issues relate to her difficulty breathing when she was born, but no way to prove that. Anyway, I find that I have to spend so much time helping her that I have little time to devote to her 4 younger siblings. They get things much quicker but they do still need me for things. How can I make the time I spend with each child more balanced?