I am fairly new to this site. I am a willing buyer. I am honest and trust worthy. That said, I am willing to accept that people don't know me so they may not want to sell to me.
If you agree to sell to me, however, please keep your word. I keep mine. This has not always been my experience on here.
I had one buyer who was more than happy to cash my check but I have yet to receive what I purchased and that was 3-4 weeks ago now. ( We both live in the US so it should have been here by now). I have tried contacting her several times and have yet to get a response although I know she's been on the board.
Today, I paid for something only to find out that someone else thought they purchased the same thing. The status of this situation is still yet to be determined.
I don't know how people decide who to sell to. I am sure it is different for everyone. I appreciate when sellers have said, sorry I am not selling to you (at least they were honest and upfront). When everything seems agreeable initially and then things start to change after the fact, that makes me weary. At this point, I am not too excited to try to buy anything else on here. Maybe I am alone here? Than again, maybe not.
This is just my opinion based on my experiences as of late.
Charlene