Thank you all for the wonderful resources.
My daughter started out with hearing problems which led to speech therapy and reading problems. Our first 2 years were focused on getting her speech better and getting her reading skills down. I also believe she has some undiagnosed learning/behavioral disabilities. She struggles to sit still, falls out of her chair several times a day, when I'm explaining how to solve a problem on the white board or with manipulatives, I can see she's checked out. I don't know if she's just bored or unable to focus.
When she's zoned out I'll ask her what a given number plus 1 is and it takes her at least a minute to answer. I'll have to give her the hint that it's just one more. It's very frustrating for me and she feels my frustration, which agitates her and makes her nervous which leads to more wrong answers.
I've tried iPad apps which feature multiple choice answers but she just picks down the line until she finally hits on the right answer. If the app doesn't allow multiple choice, it will take her almost an hour to complete 15 problems. She has absolutely no desire to learn math. I believe that it's because she struggles so much. She was the same way with reading. she hated reading and practicing her phonics. It was a daily struggle that ended In tears. I ended up chucking all our curriculum and doing "100 easy lessons" by the end of the program, she was reading and now she reads for pleasure, which I never imagined she would.
So I know there's got to be something I can do differently that will make the light bulb go on. Flash cards don't work. She does love handling things. She'll rub her pencil eraser, squish her stress ball, peel stickers off.... so I think manipulatives would be beneficial.
I think she may do well with just playing a lot of games. Does anyone have any suggestions? We had math bingo, but she didn't like it. It was too much like flash card drills. I did pick up some cuisinere rods and miquon orange. I like the reviews left here for teaching Textbooks and CLA. I'm also going to sign her up for Xtra math to see how that goes.
Anyone else have a kid like mine? What worked for you?