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I hear you on the driving. I fall asleep while driving. My max distance I can do with huge effort and to not fall asleep is2 hours in one direction. I have to do to take twins to paediatrician , and I can only do that if I drink enough water that I have a full bladder. I cannot fall asleep when busting, but it makes for uncomfortable driving. I only do it twice a year and get stressed out at just the thought. Any further than that I take public transport.