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  1. I came from a family that says how they feel, respects others opinions, and doesn't mind if others disagree. Dh's family doesn't believe you can disagree. Has no respect for boundaries, and will add passive-aggressive comments on a regular basis. Finally after many years of marriage, and convincing dh that his role in the family should not be the peacemaker, we have come to a point that may redefine all of our relationships. I realize the meshing of two families can be difficult. But it is not impossible. I am a person that has no problem laying out boundaries. You always no where I stand. I don't think it is rude to have boundaries, but we all need to respect each others. I have a big problem when my mil & fil make decisions that are not theirs to make. This usually occurs with our boys. I could go on and on. Recently I have found that many of my friends have had similar problems, and after reading many posts here; it is easy to see my dh and I are not alone. If it hasn't been mentioned here before, I do recommend "Boundaries" by Henry Cloud. It helped my dh and I get on the same page. Hopefully it can be a help to others.
  2. The mix we use is the following: 3 cups non-dairy creamer 3/4 cocoa 1 cup surgar mini marshmallows If you buy the 35.3 oz. creamer (generic works fine), you will get 9 cups out of it (3 batches) I also buy 1 pack of marshmallows and split it 3 ways. 3 heaving spoonfuls makes a nice cup of cocoa Just add hot water For an extra treat add a few squirts of Torani peppermint syrup
  3. Some additional resources for the election would be: Discuss the electoral college http://www.c-spanclassroom.org/Special-Offers.aspx We got an electoral map from C-span Collect and keep the political mailers that you are inundated with. With these we discuss the issues, but also how one candidate will market themselves. Who sent the mailer, who paid for it, what do they have to gain if that candidate is elected? Based on their age and interest of your dc, you can find several topics that may impact your family. I try to make connections for my children and what's going on and why it's important to them.
  4. Other places to try would be the hardware stores (local or Lowes). If you have any outdoor stores, Appalachian Outfitters or Rei would carry the cord.
  5. Pat Catan's has the paracord and the 3/8 inch buckle to make bracelets.
  6. Here is a phone number and website that might help. http://www.glgabrielproject.org/ 877-734-2444 :grouphug:
  7. Our winter here was fairly mild. We are not in the snow belt, but close. The last tornado that passed through was September, I believe. There was a fair amount of damage, however it did not hit the main part of town. Bugs really are not a problem. The mosquito population can be heavier in some localized areas. There are places close to hike and camp. There is an array of activities in the area. What are you looking for and more specifically what towns are you considering? Homeschooling laws are easy to navigate. This is my eighth year and I have had no problems. As far as groceries are concerned and cost of living: food prices are rising Gas is up However, coming from CA you will probably view the overall cost of living as lower.
  8. Seek out a good neurologist that will work with you and your daughter. I suffered from migraines and seizures triggered by the hormonal change during my period. It started with the onset on my menses and didn't end until we took a very aggressive approach. In my case, no medication would stop the seizure. I had very few grand mal seizures, however I would have several absent seizures every month. I feel for your daughter and I hope she gets the help that she needs.
  9. I second the Stove Top Espresso with the Cafe Bustelo. If you enjoy the peppermint mocha at Starbucks you will like the following recipe. Use a large coffee mug and put two scoops of hot cocoa mix in. (I make my own, so it is always here) Squirt two pumps of peppermint flavoring in the mug. I use Torani syrup. Make an espresso and pour it in the mug with the cocoa. Heat milk in a small pan (add flavoring if desired) and froth. I use a immersion blender. Pour frothed milk in cup. Sometime we add whip cream and chocolate shavings on top. enjoy.
  10. There is a ministry that addresses the issue of crisis pregnancy. I am part of a parish that supports the Gabriel Project and I am actively involved. If you Google Gabriel project you can find a parish that supports the program. http://www.clevelandcatholiccharities.org/prolife/Articles/Gabriel_Project%20Insert%20v2.pdf
  11. Funny you should ask. This is a subject that comes up frequently with my oldest ds. We don't have anything in writing or posted, but soon will. Generally, because you are part of this family you will contribute to the day to day work mirthfully. We will treat each other with respect. You are expected to help, with out being ask, prodded, cajoled or bribed and with out moaning or rolling your eyes. We will not pay an allowance for the daily tasks that take place in order for the family to function. For example, I cook 3 meals a day, do laundry and teach. I perform these tasks out of love, but do not receive monetary compensation for performing them. Periodically, I will ask and need your assistance in which I expect you to joyfully contribute your talent and time. I will pay for over and above jobs. However, this has not been well defined in the past and leads to frustration and disappointment. I am thnking about writing up a job description, posting it, and then interviewing for the job. But this is another post.
  12. Remember snail mail? ;) I also send pretty cards with real stamps, LOL. Why do people say they "love" FB? Am I missing this wonderful world of social networking by not joining FB? I couldn't agree with you more. Just yesterday I was moving some stuff in my desk and stopped to look at my stationary. I love writing letters. I will randomly write to someone just to stay in touch. I can't remember the last time I received a letter. I also will stop by and visit or try and arrange a short visit at the local coffee house. I prefer face to face conversations, and eye contact.
  13. We used fabric softener w/ very warm water. Sponge it on and it peeled off in layers. This method worked well for us.
  14. [What time does 4pm mean to you? ] 4:00 means 3:45 to me. I always run a little early. However, I would never arrive too early and have it be an inconvenience. Some people perpetually run late. I find that over time I tend to steer away from them and/or stop inviting them. It is less stressful if I avoid the situation. I am not going to change them anymore then they are going to change me.
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