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  1. I don't know what to think-orthopedist was certain it was a tear, did the MRI when I expressed frustration at the limitations I still had. When the results came back, he was dismissive, gave me a sheet of exercises and walked away. :mad: I think he forgot he had not volunteered as my doctor, but was, indeed, being paid for his time. I did ask if the runner's knee diagnosis made sense in light of the fact that the injury was an event, and I had never experienced a single bit of knee pain or limitation prior to that. He said it could be, just assume so. Not much help in that regard, and I am now doing some strengthening exercises and some stretches on my own, taking Aleve (which I am very resistant to, but at this point my frustration overrides my caution) and hoping for the best. If not resolved soon, off to another doc. (Waiting as insurance does not cover.) I hope you get a definitive report and a clear treatment path!
  2. FWIW, I have what they thought was a torn meniscus. Happened mid-June, saw doctor a few days later, and after conservative treatments (ice, brace, Aleve, rest), I finally got my MRI 2 weeks ago. It is not torn, as far as they can tell. Instead they are treating me for runner's knee, or damage to cartilage behind the patella. I am not convinced this is accurate based upon what I have read and experienced, but wanted to share that it can just as easily be something else! I hope all receive good MRI results and quick resolution.
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    Thank you to those who offered support.
  4. I took my older kids to my ultrasound visit for each younger sibling, but they only came in at the end, after the medical checks and measurements were completed. I did not find out the sex of any of my babies before birth, so I also had to remind the techs to please not share that information with anyone who asked!
  5. I hope his condition improves, and the doctor is able to convince your d/h of the risk he is taking with this reaction. Just a thought-take a picture or two now so if the physical "evidence" improves before the appointment, it is very clear to the doctor.
  6. So deeply sorry for your unimaginable loss. Words are so inadequate. Please know your son will be remembered for his courage and faith by many.
  7. I would never want a helmet that is not well-fitted, so I would go with the smaller size. She can likely wear her muck boots for awhile. Pick up some chaps and she'll be set. Good luck! Hope she has a great time.
  8. Do you know who generated the paperwork? I would also be uneasy with this. No panic, perhaps have do stop by there tomorrow to get the whole document, including the original signed page, and tell him you both need an opportunity to read it over together. If you have an attorney, run it by him/her for peace of mind.
  9. MysteryJen, I have no doubt what I see is more a reflection of my particular area. But I also think there are levels of this in many towns.
  10. I understand your frustration OP. But I think we may be talking about several different scenarios. There are a few (very few) kids whose passion, drive, and goals to succeed within a sport come from within, and are sustained. I completely get having a self-motivated child in any sport (or art or science, etc.), and going above and beyond to facilitate their continued progress and growth within their activity. The very large majority of kids in my area are put in sports by 3, and the intensity of the parents is extreme. For babies. Kicking/hitting/throwing a ball. Yelling from sidelines, kids criticized for "daydreaming", cursing at coaches, etc. For babies. This pattern continues, the intensity escalates, and it is private coaching, private training, many hours of practice every.single.day.of.the.year. By the age of 7 I am hearing about college plans and scouting and parents are driving 6 hours every Saturday morning for a competition. I have a neighbor whose child had to practice pitching every day, timed by parent, speed monitored by radar. And then they build a ball field behind their house, complete with backstop, bleachers, etc. Child suffered many overuse injuries, came to hate the sport once loved, and quit. Repercussions from parents are ongoing, and there is a lot of "do you know what we invested in you?" From my perspective, there is a culture of intensity in kids' sports/activities that sucks the fun out of it and changes the lessons learned in the sports from "graceful winning, graceful losing", "sometimes you're the star, sometimes you ride the bench" or "no effort, no field time" to "do it spectacularly every time. We need you to be a star. Your whole life depends upon this pee-wee game." Yuck. I would love to see a group of kids grab a bat and ball, head out and play. And have no parents nearby to "help".
  11. So terribly sorry for your family's loss. I wish there were words that could comfort, but please know you are all in my prayers.
  12. Thanks for the well wishes for our guy. Just got home from barn, and he is lousy. I am hoping another day of meds in him will bring some improvement when we get there tomorrow. Creek land-So sorry about your loss. And I now loathe opposums. We are seeing a big upswing in EPM regionally, and I am hoping that the vaccination which once existed is re-licensed and put back into distribution. I know it's a money game, but the idea that this is preventable makes me ill.
  13. I wouldn't let my dd go, but I wouldn't let her go even without your reservations about this young man. If he is interested in spending more time with her, he can buy a plane ticket out your way, pay for a hotel, and be under your watch. To go to a strange place, stay with someone you've met once, and be dependent upon them is not something I would do even now. 18 is a legal adult. 18 is an adult with complete freedom if you are living on your own, supporting yourself. If your dd is living with you, dependent upon you, then she is not there yet.
  14. Frog Tog. We take them to games, runs, shows, and they can be a little bit of heaven in the heat and humidity.
  15. Update: He had to be put down today. Thank you for your kind thoughts. He was a beautiful soul. We are heartbroken.
  16. Continued prayers for all his needs and ((hugs)) for mama.
  17. I finished homeschooling, but still stop by to lurk and read, and I wanted you to know there are so many more of us out here praying for your dear son, and for your family, than you can know.
  18. I am so sorry to have missed your first thread regarding your diagnosis. I am adding my prayers and many hugs.
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