btw: I think if he was required to at least pay some rent it would force him to get a job, ANY job where the letting him move home and not contributing is allowing him to go 2 years without a paycheck and blame the rest of the world for his bad luck in not being able to get a job in HIS field making the amount a $$ he thinks he deserves.
I've been thinking about this too. I think part of the problem is that we let kids mooch ALL the time. Part of being part of a family is contributing, whether it be in chores, helping out with siblings, etc. As a child is older(late teens) we do them a disservice by allowing them to make $$ and totally blow it on themselves. I know my brothers got full use of the family car, I had to do their laundry all because they 'worked.' Well, all their $$ went to souping up cars and stereos, not the family and most definitely not to benefit me. If I were going to allow an older child/children to live with us (and I'm not opposed to it AT ALL!) I think they need to contribute, whether that be in $$ or work around the house. If they are working outside the home I think I'd still take 'rent' $$ and set it aside for them just to teach them that their paycheck isn't for their enjoyment. We're supposed to be raising our children to be responsible adults and yet I think we shoot ourselves in the foot by not showing them the realities of having a job and supporting themselves.
jmho :001_smile: