Seriously, this post actually makes me feel better. Thank you. Many days I feel like I am really messing up homeschooling. And the kids fighting drives me nuts. I feel like if things were good, then they would be happy and then they wouldn't behave like this, right?
AND...(And I swear this is true) we've been reading Little House in the Big Woods and I think that is making things worse. The reason is, some part of me thinks my kids should behave like those kids and when they are disrespectful, disobedient, rude, fighting or whining I think "The kids in Little House would NEVER behave like that!" So I am even more frustrated because of Little House, lol! I think this happened when we read it last year too!
ANd whenever I get one thing under control everything else falls apart. Last year at this time I started exercising regularly. It took too much time. Also, the thing that I found I could do was exercise videos. However, this all was too hard with the kids. It was hard for me to watch them. And they always wanted a show themselves afterward. It seemed like half the day was gone when all was said and done. So now I am just getting chubby,but I know this is better for the kids.(Not my being chubby,just not the exercise videos in the a.m.)
I could go on and on,but I've already taken over too much. Sorry. Yes, I can relate. I guess I just am trying to find the right balance. As for exercise, I think we'll be doing more nature walks, as spring is almost here. Well, hang in there, I'm sure we are doing what is best for our dc, so that should be what we keep in mind. Kim