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IPAD from the school
aCountingHouse replied to TGHEALTHYMOM's topic in Parents' Forum Afterschooling Board
Our eldest is in year 8 this year and this is his second year with an IPAD. Some 'rules' we have at home include: No T's in the bedrooms (that is technology, tablets, tv, telephone). All technology to be in study or living areas so I can see what they are doing. No games to be downloaded onto the IPAD. It is for school use only. Anyway ours has limited space so he needs to keep it all for his schoolwork. Must ask us if he wants to download anything onto the IPAD. All technology to be turned off half an hour before bedtime, reading before bedtime. No facetime and socialising using the IPAD. This is easier as he is a boy..... Password so younger ones cannot jeopardise school documents. So far, so good. With our eldest daughter in year 6 next year and getting a school IPAD, we will constantly need to reinforce these rules. -
Learning to let go and being less controlling?
aCountingHouse replied to simka2's topic in General Education Discussion Board
You sound very wise. I think your solutions are appropriate. I am currently reading Parenting Teenagers with Love and Logic, and they pretty much endorse the same thing. If you get a chance, read this book, it will make your strategy clearer. I have a soon to be 12 year old, and am wanting to make sure I am the best I can be to allow my children to make mistakes and learn responsibility, all the while keeping our relationship strong through the teenage years. -
Learning to let go and being less controlling?
aCountingHouse replied to simka2's topic in General Education Discussion Board
You sound very wise. I think your solutions are appropriate. I am currently reading Parenting Teenagers with Love and Logic, and they pretty much endorse the same thing. If you get a chance, read this book, it will make your strategy clearer. I have a soon to be 12 year old, and am wanting to make sure I am the best I can be to allow my children to make mistakes and learn responsibility, all the while keeping our relationship strong. -
I remember when my son (now 11) was in kindergarten, and whilst I was driving to school one morning he said "mum, I don't think I need to go to school anymore because I think I know everything already!" I smiled to myself and said to him, "Oh, it may seem like that at first because you are so smart, but every year I learnt more and more, and even now I don't know everything - I am still learning. Just be pleased with yourself on how much you already know." It seemed to have worked. He loves school and knows he is learning all the time. However, I do go to work, so I have also said to my other children in the past as well that mummy and daddy have jobs to go to each day, and it is their job to go to school. They seem glad to know that I am not having fun at home without them!
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back to school...
aCountingHouse replied to butterflymommy's topic in Parents' Forum Afterschooling Board
In my heart too, I would love to homeschool. Then I think about my strengths and weaknesses (good at planning, not so consistent with follow-through) :glare:, and more importantly I think about what my children need. School seems to be a better match for them and me. They are all involved in numerous clubs, programmes and extra-curricular activities, which I know I could not provide if I was homeschooling. I don't have to be concerned with 'socialisation' as that is what they go to school for! ;) I don't have to schedule social activities, so every afternoon when they come home it is family time. I look at my children's education as a partnership between myself and the school, and this has taken the burden off me. I now get to be my childrens cheerleader, in that I can encourage them. I get to leave interesting educational materials and games around to inspire them to learn. They enjoy school, and they enjoy coming home to relax, and just be themselves. I know that I have not failed as a homeschooler, because homeschooling has equipped me to be a better person. I now create an interesting learning environment at home, and can recognise the learning opportunity in almost everything they do. I know how they learn best, and I know where I can access great homeschool material to support or improve their learning. Recognise that you have done your best, and enjoy this chapter of your life and your children's lives. -
Am I hopelessly old-fashioned?
aCountingHouse replied to psychmom's topic in General Education Discussion Board
You are not old-fashioned....just respectful. I ran a conference last month where I was speaking for 3 full days, and I was appalled that delegates were texting, reading emails and using ipads. I ended up asking them to not use these things, and thankfully they stopped using them. However, it was unbelievable that I even had to ask. :confused: -
Am I hopelessly old-fashioned?
aCountingHouse replied to psychmom's topic in General Education Discussion Board
You are not old-fashioned....just respectful. I ran a conference last month where I was speaking for 3 full days, and I was appalled that delegates were texting, reading emails and using ipads. I ended up asking them to not use these things, and thankfully they did. However, it was unbelievable that I even had to ask. :confused: -
I enjoy reading non-fiction books about - Parenting Homeschooling (of course) Business Personal Development Style Decorating Fitness Healthy Eating Great minds My best friend prefers to read fiction. She thinks I am totally wierd. Perhaps she likes books that are entertaining, and I like books that inform. Obviously books are something we don't discuss a lot, but we do discuss ideas....... Anyway, am I wierd? Are there others out there the same?
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How Do You Decide?
aCountingHouse replied to patchfire's topic in Parents' Forum Afterschooling Board
Since the previous posters gave great responses re: subject areas for afterschooling, I will discuss transitioning. Focus on your daughter enjoying school. Ensure you have a good relationship with her teacher - a respectful relationship because you appreciate what she does. Your daughter will pick up on the fact that you have a mutually respectful relationship. I think it is important for the child and teacher to 'get along' as well. This makes being in the classroom pleasant for her. (That sounded wierd, I hope I made a little sense?) See if she can make connections with one or two special friends. Perhaps you can provide a playdate for her to get to know her friends better. (It's surprising how little time they get to socialise at school!) Obviously talk about her day after school, and get her to highlight subjects and moments that she enjoyed. Her wanting to be at school can make learning more enjoyable for her. Yes, school is about academics, but it is much more than that too. -
As I mentioned previously, my kids are old enough to carry their own books, so that increases our borrowing capacity hugely. Even then, I still find myself laden with a bag that is filled to the brim. I have honestly thought about getting one of those bag-trolleys on wheels that I can drag behind me. I am sure I could fit 50 books just for me in there!
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Big Change in our plans
aCountingHouse replied to jennyleettu's topic in Parents' Forum Afterschooling Board
I am glad Avery and yourself are happy now. I think once you have homeschooled, you have it in your blood, and afterschooling is a natural consequence. Well, it was for us anyway. Welcome to the afterschooling board. -
laundry ? For family of 7
aCountingHouse replied to 3and3's topic in General Education Discussion Board
This is the exact same system that works for me! I never have clothes lying around waiting to be 'done'. I don't have any benchspace in my laundry - it is very small. So I had the doors taken off my cupboards and the baskets are now easy to access. I have the nice wicker look baskets too so they look nice as well. I not only have baskets for each member of the family (six of us), but also for towels, bed linen and teatowels.