Totally agree with all the above. No point in restating what these ladies have already said :) I'd pursue an evaluation now. I can't imagine your Ped. wouldn't have requested an earlier appointment and suggested a Dev. Ped. without some amount of concern. The benefits of early intervention are huge. My feeling is - the early you work on any areas of struggle the better. From a practical standpoint, having a diagnosis may open up insurance coverage for things you might not qualify for otherwise.
Most of all :grouphug: :grouphug:.