So this is our update. I'm not sure if I'm completely happy with it but it's much better than what we are doing.
I have a latin tutor that my daughter meets online 1x a week and we do the work the rest of the week on our own.
I have a math tutor - same as above, and he is awesome (10th grader) and we LOVE beast academy.
And we drive one hour each way to go to this homeschool co-op. I did it for the instruction and socialization. It's *a lot*- my daughter is getting a lot out of the writing class - it's IEW with chronicles of narnia
But the science hasn't been going so well.
I'm sort of yearning to do something with more of a rhythm this feels choppy-
She'll also be working with goats in 4h, I started a girls group her age group, and she is doing pottery and an outdoor program on Saturdays.
I LOVE watching hillsdale college videos.
That's about all.