Oh wow, this is so helpful. I am definitely open to evaluating him. My husband and my brother have ADHD and I know that apparently has some hereditary influence? He shows some symptoms of ADHD hyperactivity but he’s able to focus on things he’s interested in for a long time. Last year I was looking up some of his behavioral issues and they *somewhat aligned with ODD but those behaviors have started to dissipate. At this point, he seems to get along with non family member children. But I’m not sure how that will play out in later years. I myself have a lot of sensory issues but I have never been diagnosed with anything. I think my mom just thought I was very sensitive to sounds, lights, foods, etc and she thought I was “emotional”. As an adult, I’ve seen the list and I check off almost every single box for an SPD. I don’t know if that’s hereditary? It sounds like I may need to find a new pediatrician because my current one thinks “that’s normal” when I’ve brought up questions before.