I have three kids all in public school. I had been afterschooling from last June through Christmas when we moved, disrupting everything. Their old school district is well regarded but very lax at the elementary level though rigorous once into middle and high school. Spelling is not taught at all, for example, and they only just moved back to any sort of phonics instruction with my youngest child, but my middle one never had the benefit of any sort of focused language arts instruction. I suppose they were supposed to pick up reading and writing through osmosis and my 5th grade son does not respond well to that manner of instruction. We moved to a new school district that is less rigorous, particularly in middle school, but at the elementary levels at least holds kids to a standard that my son is not meeting. He has fallen behind in reading especially and I have gotten zero feedback from his teacher, which has led me to believe this will be remediated only if I do it. All of my afterschooling prior to now has been in math and writing to fill in the obvious gaps of their old district, but I have no experience with reading instruction, as all of my kids were reading above or at grade level according to their old school.
I have a ton of quality children's literature at home, though my son is not inclined to read any of it, preferring garbage graphic novels. I feel like a curmudgeon, but I hate them and feel like it's hindering his reading development at this point and that's all he checks out of the library and reads. When I have insisted on chapter books, he dutifully picks something out and then just won't read it. He does respond well to read aloud tales and I've been making a point to try stories I think boys would find appealing. He has a decent amount of non-fiction available to him as well, but I don't think he really reads any of it. He does memorize fairly well so he has had no problems yet with history or science, but I know the reading for history will be beyond him in middle school unless something changes. By inclination, he tends to laziness and lack of conscientiousness and will spend more time and energy avoiding schoolwork then it would take to actually complete said work.
Performance-wise, his skills strike me as only at the 4th grade level despite the fact that he tests at the 85th percentile for intelligence. In reading The Well-Trained Mind, he seems a better fit still for grammar stage than logic stage so I guess I ought to trust my gut and start with the 4th grade recommendations? My concern is that his reading base might be weak enough that might not be the right place to start and I have no idea how to properly assess his true skill level. I am open to any suggestions short of pulling him from school and our schedules are such that I can work with him at least an hour everyday.