Hi PeterPan, I was fascinated to read your first post. I have a nine year-old who mouths a lot of what he says again after he's said it aloud: to me it seems like he's savouring the words or replaying the language for himself, but I've not spoken to him about it so it may not be something he's aware of or choosing to do. I've begun noticing it a lot in the last six months. I've never come across anyone who's even mentioned this before.
He also has extreme meltdowns when it comes to handwriting activities that are sentence length. So, fill one word in a gap is okay, circle a word in a wordsearch is fine. Answer a question about a short piece of writing in a sentence = refusal and real distress.
We do handwriting practice and he is fine for one page copying letters and words. However, if he is writes in his journal (our informal writing activity in which writing ideas is the goal, no comment on spelling or punctuation by me is ever given) his handwriting is all over the place - letters are different sizes, capitals pop up in the middle of words, punctuation is missing, he never starts at the start of a line. Interestingly, he is really motivated to learn to write in cursive in his handwriting book, but he always prints when writing in any other subject.
I started considering retained reflexes because his gait when he runs is more of a gallop (lead leg goes first, second leg comes up to first leg but not past, lead leg goes again) and he tippy toes around enough that I notice it, but he does not always walk or run on his tippy toes.
Obviously I don't know much, but I'm really interested to ask you about your experiences. Sounds like you went to the professionals for a diagnosis? I notice that you've independently decided to go ahead - were there particular resources that gave you the courage to do it yourself, or was it the needs of your child that were really the most motivating factor? Thanks for your time - obviously I'm a bit of a newbie here!