Does she seem to be on sensory overload? There's just too much going on and it can't be processed? You could have her wear sound proof headphones, at home, this would cut out some of the stimuli. Or, have a space, like use a big box and have it in an area where she can be a part of what is going on but separate. If she starts too get wiggy, maybe suggesting going to her special spot would be a physical way that she could start to feel more in control. The other thing that I have seen done, again this is for children with sensory overload, is to do a sandwich. This is like the weighted vest or bean bag, you actually have them on the floor and lay on top of them. I know, its sounds crazy, but I have seen this work. I have seen children screaming and upset and when this is suggested, they love it. Again, I think this is a physical way the child can take control of a situation when they feel out of control inside. That out of control feeling just spills out into their behavior. I would be tempted to be like,"o.k., let's take some deep breaths....together....counting in our heads up to twenty. If you ask her questions like, What could you do about that? At first, she may not have any answer, than maybe you could be like: you could do a,b or c. Which one of those would work for you? Maybe you have tried that and it doesn't work. :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: Sounds so stressful for everyone!