I agree. I'm sure this will get me in trouble, but to me, spanking is the easy way out. In my experience, the only time I've thought of spanking is when I was just too exhausted because nothing seemed to be working.
It's taken a lot of hard work and research for me to figure out how to handle discipline. I was spanked as a child, so there was a lot of rewiring that needed to happen, and it was quite the journey. I'm glad I made the no spanking decision before I had children, because I imagine it's even more difficult to change once you've been using it as an option for discipline.
I really need to stay out of these threads, it's one of my hot button issues, and at this point, I'm just torturing myself. :lol: