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  1. Saxon DOES ask things in a different way. My daughter completed Rod and Staff Math and started Saxon 8/7 in January. They have to read the questions VERY carefully in order to know exactly what they are being asked to do and my daughter still has to frequently go back and restudy previous lessons.

     

    I'm agreeing with the others about slowing down, if you need to. Often Khan Academy has videos that can help make concepts more clear.

     

    But I just wanted you to know that we are in a similar boat. My daughter is doing okay with it only because it has started out as mostly review. If she was trying to learn all new concepts and work through the Saxon terminology she'd be having a worse time of it. Even so, she learned to do many of these problems in a very different way then Saxon is teaching it.

  2. How much of the lesson do you do orally? I'd say we do about 75% orally. We do all the worksheets written, take the tests, and do all the diagramming. Problems that are also partially spelling (irregular verb tenses, contractions) are written. My children have good oral speech patterns so I see doing much of R&S English orally as just common sense. If our children speak correctly they tend to write correctly. There are exceptions to that but generally speaking it is true.

    When do you start to do more (or all) written? My daughter is in 7th grade. I'd say things are flipped now. She tends to do the majority of it written, but with easy lessons or on days when we are short of time, we'll still do it orally.

     

    Or do you require all written from the beginning? Nope.

     

    Do you feel your child would have retained more if the lessons would have been written out? My children average A's on their tests in English. I love grammar and am a bit of obnoxious when it comes to proper usage and correct speech, so that may play a large part is why English is easy for us.

     

    Hope that helps.

  3. I would assume I don't have a clue what is going on in her home.

     

    I do believe unrepentant viewing of pornography is grounds for divorce. The word in Scripture translates as more encompassing than adultery. It actually means something more along the lines of sexual impurity. I definitely place pornography within that definition.

     

    I'd acknowledge prolonged unrepentant use of pornography and any number of other sexual perversions as grounds for divorce.

  4. So, I test every month now as soon as I am a day late. I'm so worried about my remaining tube since I lost one with my ectopic in September.

    I had a positive in Feb, but two days later started passing clots so it was not meant to be. It was not too bad emotionally. I did spend that weekend wondering what I should do as far as Dr. wise. I was only about 4 weeks. I read somewhere that even with an ectopic history most OBs would not see you until you were 6-8 weeks. I was about 10 weeks when I lost my baby and my right fallopian tube. 8 weeks seems to be pushing it.

    What can I expect if/when I get pregnant again?

    Does this question even make sense?

    My due date would have been April 7, Easter weekend. So not looking forward to that date.

     

    That surprises me. I had an ectopic and lost my tube. I saw a OB specialist because I was also having fertility issues. He had a standing order for me to go get a blood test whenever I was more than 1 week late for my cycle (which happened frequently since I'm so irregular). I think part of that is because you can get false negatives with ectopics. I was also immediately scheduled for a vaginal ultrasound as soon as the blood work came back positive.

     

    I wouldn't wait.

  5. Well, I've always loved theatre, but we started going more often when it became clear that at least one and possibly both of our kids are likely to go into the field professionally. And we "afford" the habit through a variety of means, including rarely paying full price for a ticket. For example, we've had a "preview night" subscription to the Shakespeare theatre for almost a decade. The combination of seeing the show before it's officially open and getting a discount for subscribing to the full season means we pay something like 40% of the usual ticket price. When the kids were little, we used to buy two subscriptions and take turns with one adult taking one kid to each show. We did the same thing with a Broadway touring company subscription one year (and that only after my father-in-law insisting on giving me money to spend on myself).

     

    The voice lessons are also related to the kids' career goals, although I also believe music is good for the brain.

     

    I think it's human nature to be surprised at what our fellow humans value, though. So, sure, our theatre habit is probably "wasteful" by some standards, and I'm comfortable knowing that some folks feel that way. (But it's entirely possible, if I'm doing the math from the other thread correctly, that we actually spend less taking the entire family to the theatre for a full season than some of those ladies spend on their hair in a year. So, I'm still just the teeniest bit . . . surprised.)

     

    I hope you didn't think I was questioning your theater going. I wasn't. Just agreeing with you that people have different priorities. I love the theater, by the way. :D

  6. Our luxuries are things like theatre tickets, voice lessons for the kids, etc. And those things are much more important to me than whether my hair looks great today.

     

    So, sure, it's all about priorities, I guess. I don't "look down" on people who spend money differently, although I will admit to finding it fascinating how much difference there can be.

     

    And, for me, it's GREAT when we discuss these things here. It always gives me an excuse to remind my husband how lucky he is to have me.

     

    :iagree:

     

    Exactly, we all have our luxuries and that makes sense given our individual situations. My best friend though would find voice lessons a complete waste of time and spends much more money on hair and clothes because she works outside the home and feels it is important for her job that she look a certain way.

     

    I spend more than most people on skin care items for my family. If we were to go down the list, I'd probably blow people away with how much we spend, BUT...my husband has psoriasis and my children have eczema and other topical allergies. So the expense suddenly makes more sense. However, in a WTM skin care financial comparison I'm not really likely to go into all the details of our physical ailments. LOL.

     

    I have no clue what your life is like or why you value voice lessons or theater tickets, but I'm glad you are able to afford what you value. I would hope the same would be true of everyone on this board.

     

    And I did say to my husband, "Can you believe some people pay $350 for their HAIR?" to which he replied, "Can you believe some people pay $200 for a writing curriculum?" :blushing: Does that guy know me or what? We all spend money on stuff someone else is going to find wasteful.

  7. Random thoughts.

     

    1. If you live within your means, you can buy whatever you want.

    2. If you are not living within your means, then don't try to keep up with the Joneses.

    3. Most of the stuff we buy isn't NECESSARY so choose what is important to YOU.

    4. Realize there are vastly different costs of living in this country. PLEASE understand this. I've completely stopped discussing it with my family because they just can't understand that I can buy the exact same pair of shoes that is in their Wal-mart store and pay twice as much.

     

    I'd rather spend $350 on books than on my hair, but that's ME. My best friend thinks I'm crazy for spending $$ on books. She'd rather go pay for her nails. That's HER. I love her anyway.

     

    I think it would help for folks to remember the above but I'm all for board conversations. I don't always participate but they are fun to read.

  8. Most people I know who read the Pearl's actually USE balanced parenting. I'm not going to drop a friendship with someone just because they have the Pearl's book in their house. We have plenty of evidence just on this board that a person is capable of reading the Pearl's without becoming an abusive parent.

     

    I'd drop a friendship with someone who militantly implemented everything the Pearl's advocate in their books without ever questioning it.

     

    HUGE difference, imo.

     

    But mostly it would be because I don't enjoy hanging out with people who can't think for themselves.

     

    Ahh, but I'd probably come to the same conclusion with a foaming-at-the-mouth Dr. Sear's fan also.

  9. I read my kids the books when my daughter was in first grade and my son was four. We are going to redo them this coming year with the maps for my son's 4th/5th grade geography. He's older than the recommendation now but really wants to do this as a fun "extra".

     

    They are amazing books that can be read over and over again so I wouldn't worry too much about that. There is no way my son could have done justice to the maps any younger than this coming year (he has dysgraphia). I think it would be a bit tough for the typical first grader. Even my daughter at that age would have been frustrated by her inability to get it "just right."

     

    Sorry I'm rambling. Bottom line, if you want to read the books, go for it. I'd suggest you wait on the guide/maps until your son is a bit older though.

  10. We are close to all of our neighbors. We've been here for 11+ years.

     

    We exchange edible gifts on holidays, hang out in front yards talking, enjoy watching the college fireworks from our lawns, mow lawns for each other when needed, etc. The kids play together.

     

    I'd say we are pretty close without being too close. We don't get all up in each others business but we know what is going on enough to be helpful when necessary.

     

    We have a wide range of folks, some who have lived here their whole lives (older neighborhood) and younger families.

     

    We really go out of our way to get to know our neighbors when they first move in.

  11. I had a crush on the boy next door for a while, but I never told a soul and would NEVER have wanted to act upon it. I think was 12? I definitely wouldn't have bashed another girl's head in over it. THAT'S NUTS.

     

    I wasn't allowed to date before age 16 and remember telling a couple of boys that I wasn't allowed to like them because I wasn't 16. I was frankly glad my parents had given me the excuse. I was completely uninterested in that sort of thing. I was definitely more like a previous poster who mentioned liking her books more than she liked boys. I also went to IFB private school and NONE of that boy/girl stuff would have been tolerated.

     

    I've never been boy crazy. In college, the girls were obsessed with getting a guy. Those endless conversations were so tedious. I knew what I wanted. Marriage factored into that but it wasn't my all-consuming passion. I learned early on how to say, "I'm not interested," in a polite but firm way.

     

    My 12yo (almost 13yo) daughter seems to be following in my footsteps which makes me very happy.

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