Yes, we were initially opposed to the idea--we didn't even consider it when he was first asked to join the team. He was persistent, though, so we finally let him join. The biggest factor for us was the driving time to and from the gym. Since it was only 5 minutes from our house we figured we'd go for it. Two months later the gym moved 20-25 minutes away. I was ready to make him quit right then and there, but we were able to work out a carpool with our neighbor and decided to let him keep with it. But, I still had a pretty bad attitude about the whole thing. :glare:
Two things happened that changed my mind. First, the gym was closed over Thanksgiving and he missed two practices. Some annoying behaviors like whining and complaining came out again in full force by the time he missed that second workout. It suddenly hit me that we had not been dealing with those issues as much in a long time. I'm guessing that the physical activity is really helping his mental mindset. Second, he has had two meets since he started and at both meets he has set goals and reached them. It's been great to see this once sullen, angry, lacking-in-motivation child blossom into a happy, focused, motivated one.
The other day he was complaining and whining and my DH asked him (very light heartedy), "What does Coach Miles do when you talk to him like that?" My son looked shocked, started laughing and said, "I don't talk to Coach like that." My DH responded, "Exactly. You know how to control yourself. You need to do it here at home too." :D