A note about playsets. If your dh is handy, this is what we are doing. We thought if we bought a playset they may tire of it, so last year we built just a swing set. Next year we are building a playhouse. The next a slide. See saw and so on. Add a feature each spring, so it something new instead of all at once. We built a big sandbox. They have all kinds of neat things besides shovels and pails such as cars, dinosaurs, coins, seashells. My kids are whiny about going out solo even though our yard is safe and fenced. I usually just plop my butt in a chair and relax. Tbey love random ropes.and sticks and wood and junk. Our yard looks awful, but they love it. If you have/ had a garden consider getting then child sized hoes, rakes and shovels. They love digging in the loose soil. They are currently working on a "china hole". Mine are a pain to get out, ultimately have a blast after I drag them out. Also gardening is a hit with my oldest and youngest. They end up just playing make believe a lot. lots of pokemon battles. Ds 1 likes physical challenges like see if you can run 5 laps around the house, do 20 jumping jacks. My ds likes those ride on hopper balls. They try to jump rope lol. Pretend they are race cars and race around the house or to the fence.