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AFwife Claire

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  1. Echoing all the other posters talking about Seattle . . . you couldn't pay me enough to move there. My brother and his family moved there summer of 2018 from TX to take a much higher-paying tech job. Like others have said, he currently works absolutely ridiculous hours, gets just a few hours of sleep a night, and is really struggling with the commute and just the pressure of the job. Also, and this may not be a factor for your dh, but my brother feels stressed by how extremely and militantly liberal the culture is. He has said several times that he doesn't feel comfortable having people know that he is a Christian for fear of reprisal, not necessarily outright, but subtle. He feels like he can't let anyone he works with really "know" him, so he feels very isolated. Add to that all the grayness, and he is ready to get out of there. My sister-in-law is more comfortable there. They found a great church, and so she has friends and a support group. Their kids are in a small Christian school (public school was absolutely not an option, and she didn't want to homeschool), but it only goes up through 8th grade. They are planning to move before my oldest niece is high school age. Honestly, it sounds like a miserable place to be. I just talked to my brother last night, and the conversation cemented my desire to never, ever, live there!
  2. I am so, so bad at figuring out gifts. Totally not my love language at all, and yet, I have so many people in my life to buy gifts for, and more people are coming in all the time! My oldest son's fiancee's birthday is next week, and I really would like to get her a little something, along with a card. She's such a wonderful person, and I want her to know how happy we are that our son is marrying her! She is in VA at the same university as our son, so I don't know her particularly well, or any particular needs she might have, etc. The wedding will be in the spring, and I also have to get her a Christmas present, so I just really want something sweet and little right now that says, "We're thinking about you". Last Christmas (before engagement) I got her some really great fuzzy slipper socks and lotion/body wash from Bed, Bath, and Beyond. I don't have any more ideas now though! She is a cello performance major (she's so amazing!), and she enjoys hiking and outdoors stuff with my son. But I don't know what she has or needs in those areas. Any ideas? I would be so grateful!
  3. Another (plain white) Corelle user here, and I doubt we'll ever switch. I love that I can have 24 big plates in the same space I could fit like 10 of my old stoneware ones. With a family of 12 people, and with older kids getting married now, we need to be able to have a ton of plates. We have probably 18 of the smaller lunch plates. We have dropped a few plates and bowls, and they do shatter, but oh well. They're so cheap to replace, and since they are light, they don't usually get dropped.
  4. I am also a Cedarville grad, and I echo all of this. I was a biology/math double major, and while I never formally worked after graduation (I married my Air Force man in between my sophomore and junior year, and we PCS'd as soon as I graduated), my education there prepared me to teach homeschool science classes up through AP and have my kids do very well on the exams! I had a great experience there. Now we have moved back to the area, and we often have Cedarville students (many different majors) over to our house. They have all been so fun to be around, and we really enjoy spending time with them!
  5. Yes, I agree with most here--when talking about the whole appliance, I usually say "stove" instead of range or anything else, but I would never refer to the stove when I was clearly using the oven part. Nothing goes *in* the stove, only in the oven.
  6. We rented a car in Germany when we took a military space-a hop over there in Feb. 2018 to visit friends. Actually, we had to rent 2 cars, since the 10 of us didn't fit in any one vehicle, lol. So both dh and I were driving. It was exciting! We rented our vehicles from the one place on base that was allowed to rent to retirees, but we had to hike over there from the passenger terminal with all our tired kids and luggage. So if you rent from an airport, you'll probably have an easier time of it! I think Costco rents cars overseas, so I'd probably look into that if we weren't going military. We didn't request or pay extra, but both of our vehicles came with navigation. These were absolute life savers. I literally can't imagine how we would have managed without them. Dh and I went to Germany space-a on our honeymoon back in 1995, and we also rented a car then. We navigated around by maps, and it was crazy, but it was just the 2 of us, so getting lost was not a big deal (well . . . there were some stressful moments, lol . . ) But with trying to keep the 2 cars together, and just for getting to places without wandering cluelessly around, the navigation systems were lifesavers. Each of us would have one of our teenage sons sit in the passenger seat and navigate, because even when the cool accent GPS lady was telling us to do things, sometimes I couldn't figure out exactly what she meant, and having another set of eyes was really helpful. It was really nice to be able to be on our own schedule and see whatever places we wanted to. Also, we shopped at the local grocery stores for breakfast and lunch foods, to keep costs down. That was much easier with a car. I didn't find the actual driving in Germany any different than anywhere else, although I really had to pay attention to the speed limits, since I didn't have a good feel for "80 kph" and what that felt like. It was pretty easy to find parking, since we were primarily going to touristy attractions, and there were lots of parking signs. Oh, both our cars were standard, so if it's been awhile since you've driven one, brush up on that! Fortunately it came right back to me, and I only stalled once the whole 2 weeks (and that was on a roundabout right after we drove off base, but fortunately no one else was around!). I think it's super expensive to rent automatics over in Europe. I kind of liked driving the smaller cars over there. Our big 12 passenger van felt like quite the behemoth once we got back--although it is nice to be able to all fit in one vehicle. Oh, in parking garages, you pay before you go to your car and drive out. So look for the machines as you are walking back to your car! I got a bunch of travel books out of the library and skimmed them before we left the US, and I felt like they prepared me pretty well. Things like how to pay in a parking garage where in those books! I hope you have a wonderful trip! It sounds amazing! One of the places we saw on our honeymoon was Neuschwanstein, and it was so beautiful! A dream come true for me!
  7. Youngs? I've never actually been to one of their fall things, but I know they have the maze, wagon rides, etc., and I'm pretty sure they have pumpkins too. And ice cream of course, for this hot weather! ๐Ÿ˜
  8. Oh my goodness!! How scary! We really don't go on 75 at all, and I'm thinking that's going to stay that way. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ
  9. I would also love an invite. My oldest 4 are boys, ages 22, 19, almost 18, and 16. I felt like I had a great support group for me back in VA, but when we moved a year ago, it's been harder to find people to open up to about my older kids, since I just don't know people here as well. This group is obviously a popular idea!
  10. This sounds wonderful! It reminds me of college. My roommate had a big radio/stereo thing, like most people did back in the early-mid 90s, and you could set the alarm to play whatever CD you had in it. We woke up every morning to the gentle strains of the Princess Bride theme song, which was such a nice way to wake up! The only thing was we had to make sure we actually we up and out of bed by the time that really annoying village dancing song came on, lol.
  11. This was me as well. We were stationed at WPAFB in Ohio at the time. I had a 4 year old, a 2 1/2 year old, and I was 28 weeks pregnant with #3. We were supposed to meet my best friend that morning to go shopping for our 15th high school reunion that we were planning (my dad was also Air Force, so I graduated from high school here in Ohio as well). My mom called to tell me that a plane had hit the WTC, and I also assumed it was a small airplane--how sad! I promptly thought no more about it and went about my morning. We never watched TV or anything, so that wasn't something that even occurred to me. Then my friend called and told me husband didn't want her to go out shopping, which I thought was so weird and a complete overreaction. Then my husband called and told me they had hit the Pentagon, the towers had come down, a plane crashed in PA, and the base here was closing, so he was coming home. I couldn't even take it in, but my main focus was keeping things normal for my 2 little boys. I still didn't turn on the TV because I knew there would be traumatic images, and I didn't want those seared in their little brains so early. When DH came home, and the boys were distracted, we did turn on the TV, so I saw for the first time the images. I was glad I saw them afterward, and not in real time. That must have been so horrifying. Because of the boys, we still didn't just glue ourselves to the TV--life had to go on and we had to try to keep things somewhat normal, and I was glad we couldn't just focus on the horror and tragedy. After a few days of quiet, I clearly remember hearing in the evening the sounds of all the C-17 cargo planes taking off from the base. I knew they were heading off to prepare for the fight, and I was so proud of them. I was supposed to have my 28 week glucose test a day or 2 after 9/11, but the base remained close for several days, and I had to postpone it. When I finally could get back in, it took hours to get on the base. The next year, 9/11/02, my dh had a TDY to DC. We stayed in a hotel, watched a lot of news specials after the kids went to bed, and I really read all the papers and like someone else said, read all the personal stories. I also watched a documentary about all the women who were pregnant on 9/11 and lost their husbands. Unbeknownst to me, I was pregnant with #4, and I was a complete watering pot. I cried so much during those days at the hotel! Those kids who would never know their dads, and their brave moms, moved me so much. I think because I had shielded myself so much during the days after 9/11, it hit me harder the one year anniversary that I ever expected, especially since I had all those early pregnancy hormones as well.
  12. Virginia Tech is one place. The Corps of Cadets has cadets in the different branches of ROTC, but it also has the "citizen leadership" track (the VPI track), where students are a part of the Corps, live in Corps dorms, and participate in Corps activities, but are not in ROTC and won't commission. Definitely a program to look into! My oldest son graduated from the Corps at VT, and we thought it was an excellent program. We really like the Commandant, and the leadership he provides.
  13. We have 10 ourselves, but we are good friends with a few other families who also have 10. We know quite a few families with at least 7. Most of them homeschool, and most of them are military, like us. I think having medical care often means military families feel free to have more children, especially Christian families. I think 10 is a pretty common number to stop at, for big families. We have a 17 year spread, so our oldest was starting his senior year when we had our youngest. It was getting harder for me to stretch at both ends of the age spectrum, so it made sense to be done. I was 41 at the time and knew there probably wouldn't be too many more. I didn't really want to have more once my oldest went to college.
  14. No, you can major in whatever and still be in ROTC. The list is specifically for AFROTC, and those majors are preferred for the scholarships they hand out before high school graduation. You could major in underwater basket weaving, register for ROTC classes as a non-contracted student, and then apply for a "sideload" scholarship from the detachment for later years. I don't believe Army ROTC cares at all about major. It seems to me that my sons AROTC scholarship friends have all sorts of different majors.
  15. Yeah, I was going to say, marry the son of an alcoholic. My dh is, and he never drinks. He saw the effects it had on his dad and his family, and he figured he probably had the propensity, genetically, to become dependent, so he just doesn't drink. Unfortunately, he still has some of the baggage from growing up in that family. ๐Ÿ˜“ I don't drink, so it works out well. I've never found any alcohol that I have enjoyed drinking. I'm like your daughter--I can't stand the smell or the taste, so I'm not remotely tempted. My oldest son does drink some, once he turned 21 a year ago. He is at a senior military college, and I think it can be a big part of the Corps there. I would say there are definitely men I know who were bigger drinkers in college, and then really slowed down or stopped after they graduated. I know a lot of people who rarely, if ever, drink, and it's definitely not a part of our social circle. I'm sure your daughter will be able to find someone! It's not a unicorn thing, I really don't think--at least once college is over.
  16. I can definitely relate to the moms you are talking about. I've been homeschooling for 18 years. My oldest 2 are in college (electrical engineering majors and very successful), and I homeschooled them all the way through. My good friend and I created a small junior high and high school co-op of about 5 families when we lived in VA, and that co-op was definitely the reason for my older kids' successes. It's pretty impossible, at least for me, to do all things well in high school, and I think you are going to have to outsource some things or band together with people who are gifted in areas where you are not. My kids never liked online classes, so we only did a handful of them. Then we moved to Ohio one year ago, and in some ways, it was a relief to me to get away from the co-op, just because it was so stressful to be teaching a junior high and a high school science course each year, plus memory work for the younger kids and sometimes Latin (my parts of the co-op). It was taking 2 days a week, with labs, to do the teaching. I felt like my younger kids were missing out on time with me, and I was so exhausted and burnt out. My moving led to many changes. My good friend ended up putting her 2 remaining high school kids in public school, which really was the best thing for them. The older one is very gifted musically (guitar), and he was able to have many, many more opportunities through the school than he was able to homeschooling. The younger one has a difficult personality, and having other teachers and classmates has been good, plus he can play football (homeschoolers can't play on public school teams in VA). She is still homeschooling her youngest, a daughter. I am still homeschooling, but my oldest 2 at home are dual-enrolling at the CC. I'm outsourcing more classes for my junior high girls. And I still have 4 elementary aged kids I am trying to teach. I'm still just feeling so tired and burnt out. It's like I just have no margin for anything anymore. I even outsourced science classes for my junior high girls, and a few years ago, I could never have imagined that. I'm sure my classes are way more rigorous! I don't even *like* Apologia books! But I just can't right now. I need a breather. My oldest daughter (8th grade) is really gifted athletically, and she is running with the local public school team here. She is also feeling the pull of being with the friends she is making on the team. I'm not inclined to put her in the public school, but she may run with the local Christian school and take a few classes there in high school. As I think ahead to when my younger kids are approaching high school, I can not say with 100% certainty that I'll still be homeschooling them. There's a few excellent Christian schools around here, and maybe we'll try them. I don't know. Or maybe I'll be rejuvenated and re-inspired! Whatever I decide, I am sure I will not be enthusiastically cheering my choice. I would hate being tied to a formal school schedule, and I think there is soooo much busywork in school. I despise all the extra things that I see my friends post pictures of (Leprechaun traps, 100 day things, crazy whatever day)--I don't have time nor interest for that. But on the other hand, I need to be able to exercise. And my brain is just fried. Fourteen more years seems like an eternity. I'm just worn down and tired. I don't even have particularly difficult kids or any with special needs! It's just a long haul. Give grace to your friends, especially the ones with large families! I found it MUCH easier back when I just had a bunch of little kids. I was in control of the schedule, and I decided what was important. Now everything matters more, for the older kids, and there's just a lot to keep track of., leading to the mental exhaustion I'm feeling.
  17. Teamsnap is what our swim team in VA used, and Band is what so far all of our sports teams are using here in OH. Band has worked really well. I have the app on my phone, and it bings like a text when the team coordinator posts, but not when any random person replies, so I don't feel like I'm being bothered by it all the time. I would vote for that, at least for ease of use for the parents!
  18. I love them too! His dad was one of my high school teachers.
  19. I just made a cookbook for my 2 college boys of easy family recipes, since they are both living in apartments this year, I formatted it in a word doc (2 columns per page, recipes in alphabetical order per section), printed it out, and used a binder with plastic sleeves to put the pages in. I put in extra plastic sleeves in the back for when they want to add more recipes. I used clip art to make a sheet to put in the front of the binder, and I also used dividers for the different types of recipes (soups, main dishes, breads, sides, desserts). My boys were very happy! You can definitely put all text on pages in Shutterfly though. Look for how you can change the page layouts and find the option to "add a text box". You can delete the picture boxes and make the text box the whole page. I used Shutterfly to make yearbooks for our small high school co-op for several years, and I know I did this somehow when I was describing a field trip or something like that, and all the pictures were on the other side of the page layout. I just can't remember exactly how, and my own personal books I used Snapfish for, so that's where I remember the process a little better, lol.
  20. I used that book, along with the workbook, when I taught anatomy and physiology a few years ago. I used the 4th edition, and it was really cheap and easy to find. The book was clear and readable at a high school level. I was very pleased with it, and we had a great time in the class!
  21. I just got home from a huge, all-day, end-of-season swim meet in the broiling sun. Fortunately I had 6 kids swimming in it, so at there are plenty of races to be interested in. My 4 year old and 6 year old only had one race each--the 25 M freestyle. The 6 Y.O has swam this before, but someone was in the lane with him (not touching him or really near him, but still . . . "assisted". Well, he started last night crying about how he couldn't swim unassisted (even though he has been doing it every morning in practice), and he was back at it this morning, crying and carrying on. While he was sitting and waiting on the bench to be called up, he was still carrying on, which caused my 4 year old to also start fussing and carrying on, in the midst of a million other kids, on a million degree day. Eventually he got to the blocks, where he pitched a major tantrum and refused to get up on them, so needless to say, he didn't swim. My 4 year old daughter, however, swam across the pool for the first time unassisted (although she had to grab the lane line several times). And all my other kids did just fine, so overall it was a good day. But . . Typing this out all sounds sounds so petty, lol--I mean, he's 6, and I totally get it. I'm just fried from a day in the sun, and I wish *I* could have swam 25 M in a nice, cool, refreshing pool! And there's nothing like having tons of other parents looking on as your child throws a major tantrum front and center! ๐Ÿ˜œ My dh is a saint and took the kids to the restaurant where the team is gathering to celebrate the end of the season. I have a roaring headache and am happily not conversing with anyone in person, lol.
  22. No, we took the ball part out. The base is supposed to be for you to drive a scooter or maybe a riding lawnmower up onto, so there's a ramp on one side (that flips up when not being used as a ramp), and then a flat base with a slight lip around it. It has a long square part that fits into the hitch with a pin to secure it. Bob just bought some longer pieces of metal to construct 2 more corners, with pieces connecting those corners to the existing ramp corners. We have another thing, a big "Stow-Away" box that we use when camping, that also hooks into our hitch the same way--a long square part and then a pin to hold it in. This is the sort of thing he used, but ours was cheaper--about $100. I think he got it from Lowes, but we're off to church, so this is the first thing that showed up in my search! ๐Ÿ˜Š
  23. We have 6 kayaks--2 adult-sized red ones, and 4 kid-sized yellow ones. My dh invented this ingenious carrier for them whose base is a trailer thing (but it doesn't actually go on the ground) that goes into our hitch. I blogged about it several years ago, back before we bought the second adult sized one. It's easy to get onto the back of the big van, and I can load the kayaks by myself, although it's easier if a kid helps me. Here is a post where I have pictures.
  24. Lol, I always call them jailhouse windows, because that's what they remind me of, but that has nothing to do with how the windows actually operate! ๐Ÿ˜‚
  25. I just did this on our house in VA that we are selling. I googled and found people recommending Resolve (the carpet cleaner), so that's what I used. I sprayed it on several lines of grout, waited several minutes, and then used a toothbrush to scrub, but it wasn't as hard as it had been before just using some vinegar concoction. Then I would use a wet cloth to wipe off the residue. I was quite happy with the results!
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