I am a resolutely private person who is perpetually surprised by personal information people share on a large internet forum, but I do sometimes experience a voyeuristic entertainment, and sometimes empathy, from reading such posts. My standards for posting about issues are quite simple: would I want to read that information posted about me on an internet forum. The answer is usually no. That could explain my low post count. I would not want to be defined by low points in life, and neither would my husband, children, relatives, or friends.