Mostly hands off when my last 2 finished in public school. They said they wanted parental input, but really they only want it if you do it your way. After them being at school all day for many hours I couldn't make them do more school for me too. We just pulled my 8 yo grand daughter out of school to home school. She is starting the 3rd grade. The school did not care that she was getting bullied all the time. With my experiences, I would say that most schools really don't want the parents to help unless you are volunteering to supervise a field trip etc.