I just put my 12yo ds in ps this year and it's been ok other than his personality has changed dramatically. He's constantly sarcastic and joking around. it really gets old and dh doesn't think it's too funny at all. I can over look some of it but then it's exhausting. when i'm serious and trying to tell him to be respectful or stop running his mouth, he just stands there with this look on his face like i have 3 heads and that he just can't believe that i'm telling him this. i actually think he believes that our family revolves around his happiness. i hate to say it but he drains me.. then i feel guilty because i don't want him to be unhappy. i realize that he is going through a huge transition mentally and physically but i don't know how to get through this. and my husband on the other hand, just gets mad. i feel like i'm the referee alot of times between them. can anyone relate? is there a bible study maybe that i would be good for his age that me or my husband could do with him? sometimes i think this has been a huge mistake putting him in school. but, then again, i don't blame the ps it's just that i don't have alot of time with him. he's gone all the time between school and sports. no time for anything else. :confused: