SeaConquest Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 (edited) I've mentioned in a few threads that I've been in Kaiser's pre-op bariatric program. I completed all the requirements, received my surgery authorization, and met with the surgeon, the internist, and the psych who cleared me for surgery. I am happy to report that I finally have a surgery date of February 12, 2018 at 7:15 am PST. I was originally planning to have a sleeve gastrectomy, but have decided to follow my surgeon's advice and am getting the RNY gastric bypass. I was 211 when I started Kaiser's 6-month program, and maintained that weight for the duration, but recently went on a two-week cruise with my husband, so am up 5 lbs. Oops. My goal is to be sub 25% body fat. I am currently around 48%. :leaving: I am five, four, have PCOS, arthritis in my back, had two GD pregnancies, and have been flirting with pre-diabetes since my last child. So, I am nipping this in the bud before it gets worse. Because it will get worse. I have also returned to school to pursue nursing, and there is no way that I can do 12-hour shifts, at age 43, carrying 80 pounds of excess weight on my body. It is just too difficult. And, yes, I have tried every other diet and exercise routine out there. I used to be a lawyer with a lot of $$$$ to blow on personal trainers/chefs/drugs and whatnot. I figure that if Oprah hasn't been able to figure out the solution to obesity, what chance do the rest of us mere mortals have? :lol: Anyway, I am moving forward with surgery. Feel free to follow along for the ride, if you are interested. I will post periodic updates (with pics!) to this thread as my journey evolves. I imagine that I will likely have some buyer's remorse the first month or two as I get used to my new normal. Change is hard, but I am trying to be brave (even though I am petrified inside). ETA: They just called me with a cancellation. My new date is next week -- January 17th!! Holy CARP!! Edited January 18, 2018 by SeaConquest 29 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean in Newcastle Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Congratulations on having completed the pre-op program and for having a surgery date! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Good luck! I’d be interested in hearing how everything goes. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarlett Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 I will be cheering for you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldberry Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Good luck! :) 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted January 11, 2018 Author Share Posted January 11, 2018 OMG! They bumped me up to next week! EEEK! 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassenach Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 OMG! They bumped me up to next week! EEEK! Less time to stress. You got this!! 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyhwkmama Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 My sister in law just had RNY. It has been enormously helpful for her. Sending you good vibes. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted January 11, 2018 Author Share Posted January 11, 2018 Less time to stress. You got this!! Yes, exactly! I've almost chickened out so many times! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ravin Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Congrats on the surgery date! (Off topic, I'm wondering why in Sam Hill you want to go back to school for nursing when you have a JD...but that's just me being nosy.) 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ErinE Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Have you PMed Katie (ktgrok)? I think she had a sleeve, but I'm sure she would have plenty of wisdom to share. I'll be thinking of you on the 17th! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EMS83 Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Good luck!! :D And :grouphug: for your nerves. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Woohoo!!!! I had/have good reasons for having gotten the sleeve, but there are times I wish I'd done RNY. You will do great! My signature has my blog if you haven't checked it..there's a ton on there about pre-op diet and initial post op stuff. Less stuff after that as I just kind of got used to my new normal and normal doesn't seem blog worthy, if that makes sense. But seriously, best thing I EVER EVER did for myself. Well, that and my divorce, lol. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trulycrabby Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Wishing you a successful surgery and a speedy recovery! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 (edited) nm SaveSave Edited January 11, 2018 by ktgrok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Woohoo!!!! I had/have good reasons for having gotten the sleeve, but there are times I wish I'd done RNY. You will do great! My signature has my blog if you haven't checked it..there's a ton on there about pre-op diet and initial post op stuff. Less stuff after that as I just kind of got used to my new normal and normal doesn't seem blog worthy, if that makes sense. But seriously, best thing I EVER EVER did for myself. Well, that and my divorce, lol. Just read through your blog, thanks for sharing. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 I’m so excited for you — but I have to admit I’d be scared and worried, so think of the earlier surgery date as meaning you have less time to worry and less time until you get started on your brand new adventure! It takes a lot of courage to do something like you’re doing and I’m so impressed! I remember waiting for Katie to keep posting updates about her progress and I hope you’ll do the same. Sending you many encouraging hugs and prayers! :grouphug: 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Best wishes! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendyroo Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 I had weight loss surgery (a duodenal switch) last March. I was supposed to get to the hospital at 11am and surgery was schedule for 2pm. I was pulling into the parking lot at 10:45 when they called to ask me to come in as soon as possible because they had had a cancellation and wanted to start my surgery right away. I walked in the door at 10:50 and surgery started less than an hour later. I was THRILLED!! I can't even imagine how nervous I would have gotten having to hang out in pre-op for several hours. Sometimes it is a blessing for things to move quickly...even if it is a bit overwhelming at the same time. Having surgery has been the best thing I could have done for myself. My BMI used to be 41, and now ten months later it is 23. I feel sooooo much better. I have more energy, can do more things, am more confident. It has been truly life changing. Wendy 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G5052 Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Good for you. I'd agree to an earlier date too. I was able to lose the weight through other means, but having a normal BMI is such a great thing for me. My arthritis is much better, I no longer have reflux, and my bloodwork (cholesterol and blood sugar) is normal. It's worth getting your weight down. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted January 17, 2018 Author Share Posted January 17, 2018 IV is in and I'm headed into the OR soon. See you all on the flip. I appreciate all the prayers and good thoughts. :) 26 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 IV is in and I'm headed into the OR soon. See you all on the flip. I appreciate all the prayers and good thoughts. :) Woohooo!!!!! And if the gas pain hurts badly today, try laying in bed with the foot of the bed elevated...that makes the gas move towards the bottom of your body instead of up, where it irritates the diaphragm. And walk walk walk walk walk as much as you can. It hurts, but it REALLY helps. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PeppermintPattie Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Praying! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EMS83 Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Oh, and today will be the worst as far as pain, I promise. Tomorrow will be much better. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 (edited) Praying that everything goes smoothly and that you have a quick and easy recovery!!! Edited January 17, 2018 by Catwoman 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Praying 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kassia Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Thinking of you and hoping all goes well! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Junie Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Praying for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooCow Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Praying! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soror Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Good luck! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Good luck! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Critterfixer Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Hope all goes well and recovery is smooth and uneventful. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Thinking of you and hope it all goes well. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Prayers and positive thoughts for an uneventful surgery and a quick recovery!!!! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twigs Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Hoping you are too doped up on really good pain kilers to read or respond yet, but praying for you :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 For anyone wondering about risks of the surgery, or that kind of thing, the risks are on par with gall bladder removal. I know more people are familiar with that surgery, so thought that might help and put it in perspective :) Also, this is an animation of the surgery she's having (no gore, it's a cartoon): Or if you want to see the actual surgery there are videos on youtube, or the show Fat Doctor (episodes are on youtube and I think Hulu) shows some of it. I find it fascinating, lol. I was so interested in the whole process that I had my doctor take a photo of my removed stomach (I had a different procedure) and show it too me when I woke up. Homeschoolers, lol, we're a curious bunch. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Granny_Weatherwax Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 I hope it went well. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted January 18, 2018 Author Share Posted January 18, 2018 Thank you all for the prayers and well wishes. Surgery went great. I'm in minimal pain, alert, no nausea or gas, have been sucking on ice chips all day, and have already walked two laps around the unit. Hoping my recovery continues to go so smoothly. ;) 38 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pegs Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 What a great update! Good for you. :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MooCow Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 I'm glad for you :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tap Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Yay!!! Im glad it went well. :hurray: Continued prayers and positive thoughts for a quick recovery! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktgrok Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Thank you all for the prayers and well wishes. Surgery went great. I'm in minimal pain, alert, no nausea or gas, have been sucking on ice chips all day, and have already walked two laps around the unit. Hoping my recovery continues to go so smoothly. ;) Yay! Should only get better from here! (do be aware that there is often some buyers remorse in the first few weeks, as you lose fat rapidly it releases estrogen and you get pretty moody, lol. But that passes. ) SaveSave 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
umsami Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Good luck. :) I've had two bariatric procedures and don't regret either; however, in retrospect, a duodenal switch would have been a better choice. Last one was 9 years ago (sleeve), lap-band 17 years ago. Do you have a Laz-y boy or something similar lined up for sleeping early post-op? Do you have protein shakes that you like/can tolerate? I never found one I liked but did sugar-free carnation instant breakfast (which I don't even know if they make anymore). I also had a good recipe for a sugar-free egg custard which tasted so good early on. A stick blender is wonderful for the mushies phase. :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 :hurray: :hurray: :hurray: 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted January 18, 2018 Author Share Posted January 18, 2018 Good luck. :) I've had two bariatric procedures and don't regret either; however, in retrospect, a duodenal switch would have been a better choice. Last one was 9 years ago (sleeve), lap-band 17 years ago. Do you have a Laz-y boy or something similar lined up for sleeping early post-op? Do you have protein shakes that you like/can tolerate? I never found one I liked but did sugar-free carnation instant breakfast (which I don't even know if they make anymore). I also had a good recipe for a sugar-free egg custard which tasted so good early on. A stick blender is wonderful for the mushies phase. :) Yep. I am well stocked! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SeaConquest Posted January 18, 2018 Author Share Posted January 18, 2018 Yay! Should only get better from here! (do be aware that there is often some buyers remorse in the first few weeks, as you lose fat rapidly it releases estrogen and you get pretty moody, lol. But that passes. ) Save Save Yes, I expect that I will be having a rough go of it the first month or two, but our trip to Turks & Caicos for spring break should definitely help. :) 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TravelingChris Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Wonderful that it went well. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
displace Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Awesome! I hope you heal quickly! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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