DD has a cold. She has been sick since Wednesday. I have been keeping her quarantined to her bedroom so that she doesn't spread the germs to the rest of us, but especially DH. DH is going in for surgery tomorrow morning to removed the lower lobe of his right lung. He was diagnosed with a rare form of lung cancer (carcinoid). He thinks I am being overly cautious. I really don't want him to have a cold on top of major surgery, especially lung surgery.
I am not sure what to do at this point. We are supposed to go pick up DH's parents from the airport this afternoon. We are taking them to dinner and then to the hotel. DD was planning to go along with the rest of us, but I am not sure if it is a good idea. I know DH will be frustrated if I ask to leave her home. Then there is tomorrow. We were planning to take the kids to the hospital, and I know DH will be upset if I want to leave her home. The hospital is over an hour away and the kids and I were planning to stay in a hotel for the night he is in the hospital. My parents would be happy to stay with DD or have her to their house for the night, but I am not sure DD or DH would go for that. Right now she says she is feeling better. Her sore throat is gone but she has a cough and a stuffy nose still.