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This Is Us....Do you like the show if you are not adoptive family?


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This Is Us is hugely popular among my friends. Thing is, most of my friends are foster/adoptive parents or have close family members that are.

 

I was just wondering if it was popular among other groups as well.

 

I cry at almost every episode as it touches on issues we have faced here and/or my close friends have faced.

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I like it, and we aren't an adoptive family, nor do we have multiples. It's just a sweet show.

 

However, the infant loss storyline hit me a little too hard, and I wasn't able to watch the show for a while. I expect that's understandable. I'm not really able to make much lemonade out of the sourest of lemons quite yet. (But if someone handed me a baby who needed a family, I'd happily accept!)

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Dh and I watch every week. I started watching because of the multiple birth storyline. I didn't know what to expect. Dh didn't want to watch at first. I told him he had to watch at least the 1st epsiode and then he was hooked 😆. We both love it. I cry almost every week. I'm sad there are only 2 more episodes this go around.

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Dd loves it- she is an adoptive parent and also has biological children.  I watch it but I really liked the first three episodes better than the current ones.   I watch episodes when I'm sewing or folding laundry during the day and dd warned me the latest was a real tear jerker. I shed not one tear.  I must be cold hearted. 

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Not adoptive family and I like it. Dh watches it w/ me. I only cried this past week. BTDT (what Randall was there for. Trying not to mention spoilers).

 

My friend is not from/in an adoptive family either and loves it. She's from Pittsburgh which adds a dimension for her, even though it's not a huge part of the show. 

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DD and I love it and we have no history of foster/adoption. I cry every episode.

 

DD and I began the season with a couple of friends (neither from foster/adoptive families) for a This Is US night. With all of the tears and emotions we experienced, we cancelled after week 4. We all still watch it, just from the comfort of our own couches and tissue boxes. We get together later on in the week to discuss the current episode.

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Thanks for sharing everyone.

 

My son has reconnected with his birth father as an adult and met 2 more siblings he didn't know about (in addition to the 5 he knew). My girls this past year met 4 of their bio siblings for the first time ever. They are all now young adults.

 

I loved the first few episodes and the last 2 but a few in the middle were too much bed hopping for my tastes.

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LOL! Why? That's a lot of scenes to fast forward. Are you still able to follow the plot?

Well, I'm fat, and I was excited to see a main character who isn't typically sized. Yet all of her storylines revolve around weight. Every. Dang. Scene. So at least she's not the circus freak anymore, but it's obnoxious to me.

 

Kevin's just freaking whiny. He redeemed himself at the end of the episode with his Broadway premiere. I wonder what will happen from that, so I may stop FFing through him. :rofl:

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I have not adopted and I like the show. I did have a hard time with the first episode, as someone who as lost a baby at birth. It makes for interesting fiction, but adoption right at the time of a loss is generally not recommended. I do know that it was a different time, as far as how pregnancy loss was treated and how adoptable minority babies were - but that doctor's speech was a little too poetic for me. (But obviously I got passed that as I've kept watching lol)

 

The recent episode was powerful. I haven't cried that much at a show/movie since watching Stepmom.

 

 

 

 

 

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As a loss mom, I can't even watch the first episode. My father was telling me a little bit about the plot and I can not willing suspend disbelief long enough to wrap my head around having a child die and then immediately adopting another infant. Having gone through that kind of loss, I find it offensive.

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As a loss mom, I can't even watch the first episode. My father was telling me a little bit about the plot and I can not willing suspend disbelief long enough to wrap my head around having a child die and then immediately adopting another infant. Having gone through that kind of loss, I find it offensive.

I do think that required some suspension of disbelief. But maybe not. Maybe in my grief of losing my son, I'd have taken any baby that was offered to me. They were expecting to take three babies home, so maybe taking Randall was a perfectly logical step for them. No glaringly empty third bassinet. I thought they did a good job of showing how he was first treated like a replacement but couldn't be one, of course, and they learned to love him for him. I thought that was pretty realistic.

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As a loss mom, I can't even watch the first episode. My father was telling me a little bit about the plot and I can not willing suspend disbelief long enough to wrap my head around having a child die and then immediately adopting another infant. Having gone through that kind of loss, I find it offensive.

So sorry for your loss. I am not sure that part is very realistic, even for the time it happened. I do know families though that have adopted an infant very shortly after the loss of one.

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