who constantly checks out the university to which their child plans on attending?
I realize I did it quite a bit with my girls - but they attended the same uni, so I did start to chill after awhile - since I had one there for seven years (they overlapped one year.)
now - I realize I'm doing it with the school to which 1ds wants to transfer for fall semester. (it's his first choice - the question is money, but it will only be two years, not four. so, we'll probably just make it work. he's still applying to our local uni - it doesn't let his degree know until end of june, if you're lucky. but right now he feels like that is just checking a box to say he did.)