Night Elf Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Would it look odd for a young adult male to carry a messenger bag? For some reason they seem girly to me. We'd be looking for a black cloth one. I think a leather one would look odd. This is for ds in college to carry his laptop and binders. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J-rap Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 We got one for my son and he used it for years. We got it at J Crew and it looked very manly and rugged. :) Many boys/men use messenger bags nowadays. They're really not much different than a briefcase! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spryte Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 (edited) No. Not odd. DH carries a distressed leather one. DS(24) has a distressed canvas type one. Edited February 5, 2016 by Spryte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Even 20 years ago, many guys on my college campus carried messenger bags. They were never large enough to hold my load of books. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arcadia Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 My DS11 (5' 3") carries a Cole Haan suede beige messenger bag with leather strap from the guys selection of the Cole Haan store. I carry a Tumi forest green nylon messenger bag which is from the guys department of Tumi but I bought cheaper at Nordstrom. DS10 carries a chocolate brown Fossil leather messenger bag with nylon strap also from the guys section of Fossil store. Only DS11's bag is thick enough to accomodate a laptop and a binder. Ours accommodate a laptop and a notebook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mathnerd Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 (edited) No. My DH carries a Timbuk2 messenger bag for his laptop, iPad and accessories every day - in my area, they are very common. http://www.timbuk2.com/messenger-bags ETA: DS has a messenger bag and uses it for his music books to take to his music classes - it is a Case Logic bag. Edited February 5, 2016 by mathnerd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinder Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 I've never thought of messenger bags as girly unless they're made with some frilly fabric or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joules Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 No. My DH carries a Timbuk2 messenger bag for his laptop, iPad and accessories every day - in my area, they are very common. http://www.timbuk2.com/messenger-bags ETA: DS has a messenger bag and uses it for his music books to take to his music classes - it is a Case Logic bag. My ds carries one of the Timbuk2 bags to college. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SharonM Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 (edited) High school kids ( on my bus) carry these as well as backpacks. def. not weird. Edited February 5, 2016 by SharonM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jan in SC Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Patagonia has some nice ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Night Elf Posted February 5, 2016 Author Share Posted February 5, 2016 Ok, thanks. We need a bag in a hurry to start with. The zipper on his Jansport backpack keeps getting stuck and he's fed up. We finally had to cut the thing today to get his binders out. I'm going to check at Staples and see what they have. Once we know he likes it, I may get a more expensive one that's durable. He'll be in college for years. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
regentrude Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 My DH has been using one for years. he has a grey& black Northface messenger bag. Nothing girly about that one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laura Corin Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Calvin carries a grey canvas one. It looks fine. After all, messengers - usually men - carry them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happi duck Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Ds has used a messenger bag since he was 14? 15? though now he uses a backpack in college because it's easier to fit everything he needs. Staples will probably have laptop bags *not* messenger bags. Imo, a laptop bag will look corporate and older not collegiate. (In case that matters) Depending on how much he needs to carry, a backpack might still be the way to go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TammyS Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 Not at all! My dh wants one and would never, ever if he thought it was girly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocassie Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 I have seen many college students, both male and female, using messenger bags. The guys usually have simple classic design in a shade of brown, gray (usually dark), or black in either canvas or leather. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoobie Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 (edited) Ok, thanks. We need a bag in a hurry to start with. The zipper on his Jansport backpack keeps getting stuck and he's fed up. We finally had to cut the thing today to get his binders out. I'm going to check at Staples and see what they have. Once we know he likes it, I may get a more expensive one that's durable. He'll be in college for years. http://www.jansport.com/customer-service/lifetime-warranty.html Check TJMaxx and Marshalls. I've gotten DH a Timbuk2 bag there, and they are really good quality. REI might have some good-quality options too. Edited February 5, 2016 by zoobie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TechWife Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 My.son has used one since his junior year in high school. His first one came from Target. The snap on it broke after about a year. We gave him an LL Bean messenger bag for his high school graduation gift. He is using it at college. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catz Posted February 5, 2016 Share Posted February 5, 2016 I don't think they're odd for males at all. Many bikers carry messenger bags on their bike commutes here. They read like a brief case with a long strap to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolatechip Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 I don't think they're odd at all. I have a Patagonia MiniMass. It's very nice and super tough. I load it down and it's never had any issues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkyandtheBrains. Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 My boys use messenger bags. I've always seen them as more masculine. Interesting. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gardenmom5 Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 I would think the ones that are a cross between a backpack and a messenger bag would be more useful. and for lugging it across campus- a backpack would do a better job distributing weight. a durable bullet-type nylon would probably be fine. I don't think they're girly, and you do see guys in that age range hauling them on campuses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tita Gidge Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 My boys use messenger bags. I've always seen them as more masculine. Interesting. So have I. Because of boobs :lol: . That said, my ex-husband would rather hand-carry everything than use a messenger bag. Our high school sons use them regularly, as do my brothers. But it's not uncommon where we're from, either originally (culturally) or currently (region of the US). It wasn't seen at all in the part of the US my ex-husband grew up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hilltopmom Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 LL bean has a nice one, guaranteed for life:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 I see a lot of guys with them. I have an Osprey flap jack courier, which I adore. It holds what I need for school. I got it at REI. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elegantlion Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 To add more since I'm on my laptop. I looked at a ton a messenger bags and own more than one. There are so many, it's better to define your needs and look for those features while shopping. Material: canvas or not? I see men carrying more canvas one (Rothco military type) than sport ones.Canvas is heavier. Pockets? I needed an external water bottle pocket, that eliminated some brands. Shoulder strap? Adjustable, necessary. Removable, preference. I needed one that could extend a little longer as I am long-waisted and prefer to hang the bag near my hips rather than higher up as some courier bags do. I ordered a Timbuk2 bag and that was one of the issues that caused me to return it. You also need to ensure it's padded in some way if you're going to be carrying a lot of stuff. Quality? There are a lot of companies that go on the messenger bag band wagon in the last few years, particularly in the canvas models. Quality can be hit or miss. Since I don't have a lot of shopping options, I read a ton of reviews and watched a lot of youtube videos. I utilized Amazon's free returns a couple of times. Capacity? This one is important. Know what he needs to carry and shop from there. The Osprey pack I mentioned carries about 4 folders, 4 sprial notebooks, two-three books smaller books, not huge textbooks, snacks, water bottle, my wallet, and there is room for a little more. Carry handle on top? I found this to be important. I miss it on the bag I own that don't have it. Computer section? Some messenger bags are one big open section. The Osprey bag has a separate padded computer section. Outside back pocket? This is one thing my bag doesn't have. I'd like a section to just stash a book or folder without opening the whole bag. It's not a huge issue, more of a preference thing. Personally, I would skip the office store. I would go to sporting goods stores like REI and even a military surplus store if he wants a more vintage canvas bag. I second TJMaxx/Marshalls or even Ross, although they can be hit or miss this time of year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alisoncooks Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 Messenger bags are totally cool for dudes. DH and I both use (and love) cross-body slings -- so like a messenger and a backpack had a baby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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