I'm grumpy and just told my cat to "leave me alone, already. ".
I wasn't at all gentle last night as I was shifting about trying to get to sleep. My cat not only decided she HAD to sleep on top of me, every time I shifted to relieve some spot jabbed by her elbow or something she shifted to make sure other spots were getting jabbed just as hard. My feet started coming into play. Either she was going to move to the corner at the foot of the bed or she was going to get off.
Sometimes she decides to sleep on my chest if I am on my back, or beside me and right in my face if I am on my side. When she does that I wrap both arms around her to hug and cuddle. She hates that -- doesn't like being confined or restricted. She quickly moves away, purring to reassure me she still loves me but can't tolerate the clinginess.
I I'm lucky she will either remember her big bed manners, or she will go back to her blankets on the foot of DD12's bed.