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We're a bit old-fashioned here, but my favorite family thing is popcorn and games. Our newest is Blokus, but we also like Dutch Blitz, Memory, and Apples to Apples. My husband & kids really like the classics: Scrabble, Risk, and Monopoly.

 

How about building models or a birdfeeder? Have you seen the stain-glass-look coloring books or the advanced paint by number kits

and dot-to-dot books?

 

With the holidays approaching, maybe you could research a baking or decorating project to work on. We always make gingerbread

houses and decorate them together. We make quick breads for the neighbors for gifts.

 

Have a great time enjoying your family!

 

 

 

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Game Night

Movie Night (at home)

Go out for dinner

Shopping

Local amusement park

Meet friends at the park or have friends over

Camping

Go to a local place of interest (museum, coffee shop, art show, college theatrical performance, historical house, etc...)

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Going out to eat

Playing board games (Clue is the current fav)

Bookstore

Shopping

 

 

Admittedly, given the age difference between the children, we split off more frequently than we do "all together"; the things we do together, are more compromises, as we know that most of the things will not appeal to ALL three of the children. DD13 and DH go to movies that appeal to them, because I know DS5 and DS2 wouldn't care for them; we'll take everyone to the children's museum, knowing that that is more for the younger boys than anything; the boys can't participate in board games like Clue, so we play those *just* with DD13; but other times we'll all play a game that is on DS5's level.

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our together times are mostly in the evenings, & we're all kind of homebody & introverted so....

board games (if you're looking for ideas, check out TableTop on youtube. Sometimes getting together to watch others play is more fun than playing the game LOL)

 

video games

movie night - about every 2 months we do the theater. In between, we will do a ppv at home.

shows on netflix that we all watch together regularly

ds 16 & I build lego together

 

dd & i have a tv night where we watch our own show (first was ER, then Grey's, now The Good Wife. We watch several episodes on dvd each week.) 

 

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Is your dh in a power wheelchair or a lighter push one?  My girls are not loving geocaching and many caches are just off wheelchair friendly paths at the parks (your dh could see them locate the cache) and some are right on the trails or sidewalks in town, etc.  If you have a hand held GPS then it is a free activity..........provided you aren't in cold/snowy weather.

 

 

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Disneyland. I have sun sensitivity so it's hard to find things to do that are outdoors, in the shade, or at night. I'm so glad for the Disney passes, they're worth every penny.

 

Board games. Fun, goofy ones. Quelf is the new favorite. 

 

We go listen to a lot of music. We saw a band a few weeks ago and there was a guy in the mosh pit in a wheel chair. He was with his friends having a blast and going nuts. :) 

 

We go to a bird sanctuary which has very accessible paths but is still plenty nature-y. 

 

We try lots of new restaurants and hit our favorites as well. 

 

Cuddle up with a good movie and do some baking. 

 

On holidays we clear the classroom and bring out the disco lights. We have awesome dance parties. Everyone gets funky!  :001_wub:

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Card games and Settlers of Catan, museums, exploring different coffee houses in town, movies (at the theater is fun!), find a good TV series and watch it together, cooking a meal together, camping (there are handicapped accessible camper cabins), community plays.

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My dc are both teens.

 

I have a lot of repeats but...

Some things we do together:

Museums

Games

Get coffee at a bookstore...coffee together then browse separately then on the way home share

Dc and I do NaNoWriMo "together"

Read aloud (memoirs, nonfiction things we can discuss)

We have certain TV shows we watch together

Go to movies

Work on projects around the house

Plays

Concerts

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Besides watching movies together and playing games, a lot of the time we just sit around and talk. We talk about all kinds of things. Sometimes they'll ask me and DH about when we were younger. Of course we have stories to tell. I can't even say what we talk about really. Just all kinds of things. But we've always done that, even when the kids were younger. I love listening to their thoughts and being a sounding board for working things out.

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Gardening (raised beds can work for wheelchair gardening, maybe building them could be a family project) - I grew up with a neighbor family that had extensive raised beds built for wheelchair gardening - it was beautiful.  You could then make cooking the produce a family thing, too.

 

Do you live near a city?  Our city has "virtual" geochaches - lots of them - they involve solving a small puzzle, rather than finding a cache and since they are in a city they are almost always wheelchair accessible.

 

Love all the other ideas, these were the only two different ideas I had in mind.

 

 

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Board games are big for us. We will watch the show Tabletop, with Will Wheaton and then get the games.

 

We use to do way more, but the kids have gotten so busy lately that we can't get in to doing stuff. My husband also gets in to ruts where he just wants to do stuff without the kids. So sometimes, it ends up being really forced. 

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Gardening (raised beds can work for wheelchair gardening, maybe building them could be a family project) - I grew up with a neighbor family that had extensive raised beds built for wheelchair gardening - it was beautiful.  You could then make cooking the produce a family thing, too.

 

Do you live near a city?  Our city has "virtual" geochaches - lots of them - they involve solving a small puzzle, rather than finding a cache and since they are in a city they are almost always wheelchair accessible.

 

Love all the other ideas, these were the only two different ideas I had in mind.

 

Do you have a link for these virtual geocaches?

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Do you have a link for these virtual geocaches?

 

We use the geochaching app, so you could probably search for virtual caches near you.  We are near DC, and lots of DC caches are virtual - leaving little caches/packages around might get one into trouble.   :)

 

Here's a link to one virtual cache, it's not one we've done though:

http://www.geocaching.com/geocache/GC11C2_fdr-memorial?guid=76522fba-ae75-48a8-8697-9bc46c5ea3b5

 

ETA: the first time we did a virtual cache, we didn't catch that it was virtual, and spent an embarrassing amount of time looking for an actual cache!

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We had APs for over 10 years.  I miss it terribly. 

 

I am going to try to still like you.

:tongue_smilie:

If it makes you feel any better, my family only wants to go on the.same.four. rides........ over, and over, and over again. 

I think we're about due for a forced Tiki Room visit, family sing along style!

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I read some of their high school literature aloud so dh can be a part of the discussions.

 

Plays, concerts....we go to Alma College because students are free. Tickets to anything costs just $10.00 each for dh and I. Five people for $20.00 is cheaper than a movie.

 

Movie night at home...occasionally at a theater.

 

Rousing, crazy games of the board game Equate.

 

Hot dog roast in the back yard, bonfire, etc.

 

Travel. We love to travel together, museums, nature hikes, and science centers are favorites.

 

Service projects where we can all work together such as the food pantry.

 

Taking a leisurely drive and just talking.

 

Kayaking, canoeing, and swimming are much loved. Fishing. The guys fish. This does not include me. I will stay back at camp or hang out by the water with a book. I do not fish. Have no desire to...was forced to fish as a child and developed ZERO affinity for it after numerous snapping turtle and leeches grabbed my hook. I think that my father was immensely happy when my brother and I gave up on fishing! LOL

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