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I will try not to get too wordy here....but some information will help you understand our situation. 

 

We live in a TINY town (400ish people).  About 95% of the people who live here, have lived here their entire life...and they have 2-3 generations that live within a 10 mile radius.   We aren't in the 95%....we moved here 16 years ago...but some people still treat us like we just moved here...and we don't have a place here. (not all...but many).   

 

My daughter LOVES to babysit and has 2 families that she is basically their only sitter, but she wants to have more families call her.  I don't know for sure, but I have the feeling that the 2 main reasons many people won't even consider her is because 1) many families will call neices first (or cousins)...and 2) because she doesn't go to PS and isn't a popular girl.

 

Her selling points (if we could ever get this out to people) are 1) she is available most of the time...she isn't involved in every sport under the sun or other school related activity like most of the girls here and 2) she actually plays with the kids...she spends time packing a special bag with activities for the kids.  She doesn't have a phone or other devicies that seem to take the focus off the kids....

 

BUT, our problem is this: we don't know how to "advertise" her without actually doing that.  We talked about putting up little "ads" around town letting people know that she is available, but  there are still many people here in town that I wouldn't want her to babysit at...we don't know them, we don't know if we can trust them...and I don't want to put her in that kind of situation. 

 

We also don't want to go around "tooting our daughter's horn" either...."Hire our daughter to babysit"...to me that seems sort of weird.

 

So does anybody have any ideas for me?  Or do we just need to be patient and see what happens.  The 2 moms she already sits for have told others that she is a good sitter...but nobody has called her.

 

 

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What about if she started a little "camp" for kids? Maybe for a few days over a holiday break, days that the public school kids have off because of teacher workdays, Saturdays, etc. She can advertise the camp by putting up fliers, or contacting people and neighbors directly. She can charge a small amount for supplies, and do crafts, games, obstacle courses. Then she'll be known by others and may be more likely to be called as a sitter.

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Instead of you advertising her, she needs to do it.   If you have list of people you know that you would like her to babysit for, send them a 'Back to School Special" flyer.  Mail them or deliver them.  If she actually sees the person when dropping off say "Hi! I'm trying to build up my babysitter business this fall so I wanted to give you my flyer."

 

"School is starting back up! Do you have  your babysitter lined up?

 

Call Jenny at 867-5309!

   * Experienced

   * References available

   * CPR and first aid

   * Crafts and games

   * Homework help

   * Flexible hours 

       (I am homeschooled, so I am available during regular school hours!)

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Instead of you advertising her, she needs to do it. If you have list of people you know that you would like her to babysit for, send them a 'Back to School Special" flyer. Mail them or deliver them. If she actually sees the person when dropping off say "Hi! I'm trying to build up my babysitter business this fall so I wanted to give you my flyer."

 

"School is starting back up! Do you have your babysitter lined up?

 

Call Jenny at 867-5309!

* Experienced

* References available

* CPR and first aid

* Crafts and games

* Homework help

* Flexible hours

(I am homeschooled, so I am available during regular school hours!)

I see what you did there! :)

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right, random flyers is not the way to go...but "targeted" ones are...that is really no different than "talking" to people you already know....wish I would have thought of it...but it's because I don't think of those great ideas that we have this board!!!!  THANKS again.

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I'll be humming about that Jenny through dinner, haha!

 

Targeted advertising sounds good.

 

Also have a plan in place for how to accommodate new families? The plan could just be "no", of course, but in a small town you don't want to burn any bridges, right? So maybe you are allowed to stop by and or stay, only 2 hours at a time to start, home by dark, etc. Something so that she has a ready response for families that haven't been cleared by you.

 

What about offering sick-day or snow-day or after-school care as a foot in the door?

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You know, I think it's okay to toot her horn a little. If you're not going to allow her to put up flyers and advertise to the general public and the initial word of mouth isn't quite doing it, then I think it's fine for you and your dh to tout her a little to your friends and acquaintances. I don't think you need to send an email to everyone you know with young kids, but I would just start mentioning it when you see families you know who have kids the right age. "Hey, I've been meaning to tell you that dd started babysitting and just loves it. She'd love to sit for your dc if you ever need her." As long as you don't carry on and on or bring it up more than once or maybe twice ever then it's not braggy or pressure filled. Initial information and leave the ball in their court. No big.

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