Ginevra Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 For those who remember, dh was over-eager about youngest ds wrestling, ds "hates" it. He has been continuing with wrestling, but dh has also relaxed about it; he sees that this was not heading in a positive direction. He has skipped a few matches that were going to be quite far away (i.e. 2 hours) or double-header type matches over two days. I expect he will finish this season, but not continue next year unless ds requests it. I think Spy Car may not be around right now, but if he does happen to see this, I just want to say I really appreciate your thoughts on this, Bill. It helped me see it more objectively and not like such a "girl." Bill's posts really did make me realize that there's a perseverance skill involved in this sport that I can really admire and I'm glad I was not overly quick to interfere with that lesson. All of you, thanks for your thoughts and prayers on my behalf. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
besroma Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 Thanks for the update! Glad to hear it is going well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harriet Vane Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 Thanks for the update! Glad to hear it's going well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jen3kids Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 I didn't see your original post, but wanted to say that my oldest began wrestling in Grade 3. He was a 'late' starter to some people, but he was modestly successful for 2 years. He quit, surprisingly, in grade 5 but returned again in 8th grade. He was more successful that year and now, in his 5th year, he is wrestling for his high school varsity team. His record is about even, but he is sticking with it and has big plans for his team by his senior year! So, I guess I want to say that even it isn't right for you son at this point doesn't mean he'll never wrestle. Wrestling takes a lot out of the kids. It's one on one and there is a definite winner and loser, plus, sometimes it hurts! It's not like a team sport where you all share the loss, it's all on the individual. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammyla Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 I'm glad you updated us. I had the opportunity to watch a bit of a wrestling tournament this week. I'll admit it didn't do my mommy heart any good watching... and those young men were not even my son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Live2Ride Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 Thanks for the update...I remember reading it, but I don't think I responded...lack of time that day most likely...I will say that when my kids wanted to start doing activities, we explained that once they started, they had to finish out the year (barring any major issues). That in order to give it a fair shake a good effort had to be put in even if it did get a bit hard. Perseverance is a hard skill to learn. Hugs to you and I'm glad that it's working out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 25, 2013 Share Posted January 25, 2013 I didn't see your original post, but wanted to say that my oldest began wrestling in Grade 3. He was a 'late' starter to some people, but he was modestly successful for 2 years. He quit, surprisingly, in grade 5 but returned again in 8th grade. He was more successful that year and now, in his 5th year, he is wrestling for his high school varsity team. His record is about even, but he is sticking with it and has big plans for his team by his senior year! So, I guess I want to say that even it isn't right for you son at this point doesn't mean he'll never wrestle. Wrestling takes a lot out of the kids. It's one on one and there is a definite winner and loser, plus, sometimes it hurts! It's not like a team sport where you all share the loss, it's all on the individual. Thank you for sharing that. I think dh is realizing this - that it is possible ds will pick it back up at another point. I admit, this ds does have the personality to be good at wrestling. But, yes, it is not an easy sport in any sense and it is hard to overcome what is hard about wrestling to be good at it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spy Car Posted March 4, 2013 Share Posted March 4, 2013 For those who remember, dh was over-eager about youngest ds wrestling, ds "hates" it. He has been continuing with wrestling, but dh has also relaxed about it; he sees that this was not heading in a positive direction. He has skipped a few matches that were going to be quite far away (i.e. 2 hours) or double-header type matches over two days. I expect he will finish this season, but not continue next year unless ds requests it. I think Spy Car may not be around right now, but if he does happen to see this, I just want to say I really appreciate your thoughts on this, Bill. It helped me see it more objectively and not like such a "girl." Bill's posts really did make me realize that there's a perseverance skill involved in this sport that I can really admire and I'm glad I was not overly quick to interfere with that lesson. All of you, thanks for your thoughts and prayers on my behalf. I was very pleased to read my advice was helpful to you. We men (usually) do come around to facing reality eventually. I hope it has all continued to work out. Best regards, Bill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catwoman Posted March 5, 2013 Share Posted March 5, 2013 I'm glad to hear that your dh has lightened up about the wrestling, and that he has become a lot more flexible about it. I'm sure his more casual attitude has gone a long way toward making your ds happier about finishing the season. :thumbup: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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